I'll probably get yelled at for this Options

[*salcha*]

STOP BEING MEAN

Last night when I went into the chat, some people were bashing the girl Nicco with the sn DoNotBreath. I just lingered for a while and finally IMed her saying that everyone was joking and didnt mean any harm. Uh, then she showed me a picture of her cuts because of what the chat said to her. Now, of course this is a bit off the wall and pathetic...but really, everyone else wasn't right either.


I'm not pointing fingers :P

[racoons > you]

the more civilized way is just to ignore her, but none of us did except the ones that were in there who didn't say anything to her. james. like what? stop cutting yourself? stop being depressed. get some help, stop talking to us because we can't help you.

say if you were there. what would you have said to her so we all can take an example of what to do when a depressed girl or boy starts complaining about how much life sucks.

im not saying that you were necessarily rude or obnoxious then, like i said, i wasnt there. but your past behaviour leads me to believe you probably were. and the fact that someone felt strongly enough about this in the first place.

if i had been there, in this instance personally, i would have probably ignored her, specifically, because i dont know her.

however, in cases where you do know the person, i am happy to give you advice, if you would genuinely like it. one of my best friends went through an EXTREMELY hard time in her life, and i do have an idea of how to try and help people get through those kind of times. mainly, you have to recognizwe that very often, it ISNT attention seeking. thats the primary problem.

also, i'd just like to add that we didn't mean for her to cut herself.
and we're sorry about that.
but i've been told to shut the f**k up plenty of times before. by people i didn't know. and i'm sure that everyone else involved had been too. we didn't expect that to come of harm. but what's done is done, and there's nothing we can really do about it now. she's not gonna want to be buddy buddy with us, even if we say sorry.

well thats fine
YOU'RE sorry. you cant speak for the other two who specifically said they werent.
anyway, just try and be civilized