Losing Trust For No Reason |
 Mar 29 2006, 08:25 PM
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Quiet Now the Dreams Are Sleeping.  Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,354  |
My Boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over three months and monday night i told him that i was going to try out for color guard for our high school. And he got a little upset and then yesterday he sent me email explaining everything. And he told me that he won't trust me like he does know because i will be in band. He has lost two girlfriends becuase they started band and broke up with me. Is it okay for him to ti trust as much just because I'm going to join band?
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Mar 29 2006, 10:46 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
Make an effort to make him feel secure when you join band. Act like it's all normal. Don't make a big deal out of it. And don't talk about what's happening in band with him because he might being to stress out. Don't make any promises ("Nothing's going to happen because I joined band!") because he may build his hopes up to get shot down (and lose trust in you even more).
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jnxsey Losing Trust For No Reason Mar 29 2006, 08:25 PM
BitterSweetness this is weird..he should trust you if you're r... Mar 29 2006, 08:38 PM _sarcastic_ talk to him about it, reassure him that everything... Mar 29 2006, 10:21 PM Ice Cream 4 U ^^Agreed.
But I have an idea. Maybe you can encou... Mar 29 2006, 10:57 PM x__Elle. That's a little strange..you just don't to... Mar 29 2006, 11:47 PM Shahin Band really doesn't seem like the most relatio... Mar 30 2006, 01:09 AM jnxsey Thanks everyone i will try your advice. Mar 30 2006, 05:36 PM
mipadi He's just worried because his experiences with... Mar 31 2006, 04:26 PM |
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