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I'll probably get yelled at for this
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post Mar 29 2006, 07:23 PM
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Last night when I went into the chat, some people were bashing the girl Nicco with the sn DoNotBreath. I just lingered for a while and finally IMed her saying that everyone was joking and didnt mean any harm. Uh, then she showed me a picture of her cuts because of what the chat said to her. Now, of course this is a bit off the wall and pathetic...but really, everyone else wasn't right either.


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post Mar 29 2006, 07:51 PM
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She came in, started saying some stupid sh*it about how her dad doesn't pay for child support and all that. What in the fu*ck are we supposed to do about that? Say sorry yeah ok, but she kept going on about it. One of us cracks a joke, and she takes it like nothing then she starts bashing on herself. She even went to go on and explain why she was the one getting picked on. "I take it and you guys dont" Well thats the problem don't you think? I've faced and tried to help too many "emo kids." I'm not keeping my cool on the subject anymore. Little weak half-assed bastards don't deserve to live.... if your gonna cut... cut deep and rid the world of your weak, cowardly, unegocentric lives... you should not be allowed to keep on going if thats how your gonna take it.
 
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post Mar 29 2006, 09:20 PM
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QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Mar 29 2006, 6:51 PM) *
She came in, started saying some stupid sh*it about how her dad doesn't pay for child support and all that. What in the fu*ck are we supposed to do about that? Say sorry yeah ok, but she kept going on about it. One of us cracks a joke, and she takes it like nothing then she starts bashing on herself. She even went to go on and explain why she was the one getting picked on. "I take it and you guys dont" Well thats the problem don't you think? I've faced and tried to help too many "emo kids." I'm not keeping my cool on the subject anymore. Little weak half-assed bastards don't deserve to live.... if your gonna cut... cut deep and rid the world of your weak, cowardly, unegocentric lives... you should not be allowed to keep on going if thats how your gonna take it.

Wow, that's extremely ignorant and insensitive.

Have you ever thought for one moment to just well, shut up? Why should she be the one to shut up? Sure, you don't like her choice of subject. Did you ever think that some people might be lonely and have absolutely no one to confide in? Of course she's going about it in the wrong way, but that doesn't mean you have to be rude to her and tell her to "STFU".

Think about this for a minute. Do you think this improved the way she is feeling at all? Do you think you helped her? Do you think you did a good thing/the right thing? Are you satisfied with yourself in the aftermath?

Just because you think you're so tought and have no issues doesn't mean everyone else should just "shut up". Not everyone can handle pain as easily. Think about how this girl is feeling for one minute. Would you like it if people told you the things you told her? (I don't know what you told her other than to STFU, but you know what I mean)

If you're going to do anything, you should do one of the following:
1) Talk to the person, be supportive.
2) Leave.

If you're not mature enough to figure out how to do either, then... That's just pretty pathetic.
 

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salcha   I'll probably get yelled at for this   Mar 29 2006, 07:23 PM
islandgirl4eva   I agree with you. It's not cool to single peop...   Mar 29 2006, 07:25 PM
Smoogrish   That's.. horrible. Gosh. Actually, there...   Mar 29 2006, 07:26 PM
salcha   Haha well, she was bashing back...but everyone who...   Mar 29 2006, 07:26 PM
tic tac.   She cut herself because of the chat was being mean...   Mar 29 2006, 07:30 PM
Smoogrish   Ooh, ouch. Even if she was bashing back, everyone ...   Mar 29 2006, 07:31 PM
APPLEjuicex   well, people who cut and who get depressed can lit...   Mar 29 2006, 07:32 PM
Smoogrish   ^ Yeah, we learned about that in Health. "Don...   Mar 29 2006, 07:35 PM
salcha   Yeah, I love how there's bashing going on in t...   Mar 29 2006, 07:35 PM
Kristinaa   What about all the mod bashing? I quit going into ...   Mar 29 2006, 07:39 PM
skp86   ^amen. We just need to *control our actions, as we...   Mar 29 2006, 07:40 PM
Smoogrish   ^ Yeah, there is a lot of mod bashing, which reall...   Mar 29 2006, 07:41 PM
zomgznoway   Oh, I agree. Rik and Sandy and Moni were being do...   Mar 29 2006, 07:42 PM
Funky Buddha   What in the hell.. HELL NO! I refuse to say s...   Mar 29 2006, 07:43 PM
islandgirl4eva   No matter if they're noobs or not, people are ...   Mar 29 2006, 07:44 PM
Smoogrish   Let's be friends, and maybe it'll go away....   Mar 29 2006, 07:44 PM
tic tac.   QUOTE(Smoogrish @ Mar 29 2006, 4:44 PM) L...   Mar 29 2006, 07:46 PM
islandgirl4eva   I'm glad I'm not a new person now. But whe...   Mar 29 2006, 07:47 PM
Smoogrish   ^ Haha yeah, me too. You're an oldie. All the...   Mar 29 2006, 07:49 PM
mzkandi   Yeah, I dont understand why people think it's ...   Mar 29 2006, 07:50 PM
Funky Buddha   She came in, started saying some stupid sh*it abou...   Mar 29 2006, 07:51 PM
twin__cinema   QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Mar 29 2006, 6:51 PM...   Mar 29 2006, 09:20 PM
racoons > you   QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Mar 30 2006, 1:51 AM...   Mar 30 2006, 12:55 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(racoons > you @ Mar 30 2006, 12...   Mar 30 2006, 12:58 PM
Smoogrish   ^ Agreed. I think we're not really helping the...   Mar 29 2006, 07:52 PM
Ice Cream 4 U   Bashers suck @$$...........................   Mar 29 2006, 08:47 PM
No Fear   I was there, I didn't bash her out! YOU K...   Mar 29 2006, 08:55 PM
acidophilus   The Internet: SERIOUS BUSINESS   Mar 29 2006, 09:12 PM
F_L_I_P   :Points Finger at Rik: XD jk What if she just got...   Mar 30 2006, 01:15 PM
hello moto   how sweet, making this thread is giving her what s...   Mar 29 2006, 09:17 PM
x__Elle.   QUOTE(hello moto @ Mar 29 2006, 9:17 PM) ...   Mar 30 2006, 12:35 PM
zomgznoway   Fine, Rik and Sandy. If you were pissed about her ...   Mar 29 2006, 09:23 PM
chaneun   How would you know if those were really her cuts? ...   Mar 29 2006, 09:45 PM
juliar   QUOTE(chaneun @ Mar 29 2006, 9:45 PM) How...   Mar 30 2006, 01:04 AM
Kristinaa   Let us keep this topic on a friendly scale, okay? ...   Mar 29 2006, 10:06 PM
smearedmakeup   Poor girl, I feel bad for her. But I'm glad I ...   Mar 29 2006, 10:09 PM
ROARxD   =T ouch. Seriously whats the point to bashing anyw...   Mar 29 2006, 11:22 PM
herizon xP   I'm taking all the blame, guys. Honestly, thou...   Mar 30 2006, 12:11 AM
Funky Buddha   QUOTE(herizon xP @ Mar 30 2006, 12:11 AM)...   Mar 30 2006, 01:05 AM
herizon xP   QUOTE(juliar @ Mar 30 2006, 12:04 AM) I a...   Mar 30 2006, 01:07 AM
juliar   QUOTE(herizon xP @ Mar 30 2006, 1:07 AM) ...   Mar 30 2006, 01:11 AM
herizon xP   QUOTE(juliar @ Mar 30 2006, 12:11 AM) yea...   Mar 30 2006, 01:17 AM
Shahin   I've only been in those chats a few times. It...   Mar 30 2006, 01:18 AM
hello moto   yea i want to know how it was bashing if i only to...   Mar 30 2006, 01:36 AM
twin__cinema   Hey, I busted my way through... I'm sure you c...   Mar 30 2006, 02:07 AM
gt3k145   well im guessing there are people on cB that will ...   Mar 30 2006, 10:44 AM
annabel_x   thats just mean.. when I was a newbie, that happen...   Mar 30 2006, 11:25 AM
islandgirl4eva   This is going to be the last thing that I have to ...   Mar 30 2006, 11:27 AM
gt3k145   i dont get why anyone would "flame" you ...   Mar 30 2006, 12:28 PM
No Fear   I have one thing to say. Everyone's my friend...   Mar 30 2006, 12:46 PM
Zatanna   I knew there was a reason why I've been terrif...   Mar 30 2006, 12:46 PM
hello moto   well i highly doubt she cut herself over this, she...   Mar 30 2006, 01:09 PM
No Fear   QUOTE(hello moto @ Mar 30 2006, 1:09 PM) ...   Mar 30 2006, 01:41 PM
racoons > you   ^ because sometimes, people cant take it. if you...   Mar 30 2006, 01:13 PM
hello moto   lol okay??? then why was she saying shit back to u...   Mar 30 2006, 01:17 PM
racoons > you   did i SAY she was an angel? i wasnt there. i dunno...   Mar 30 2006, 01:19 PM
bballchick1   Wow. That's really sad.   Mar 30 2006, 01:22 PM
juliar   okay. i was there. i was nice to her at first, bec...   Mar 30 2006, 01:23 PM
x__Elle.   QUOTE(juliar @ Mar 30 2006, 1:23 PM) the ...   Mar 30 2006, 01:26 PM
racoons > you   QUOTE(juliar @ Mar 30 2006, 7:23 PM) okay...   Mar 30 2006, 01:27 PM
juliar   QUOTE(racoons > you @ Mar 30 2006, 1:2...   Mar 30 2006, 01:31 PM
racoons > you   im sorry, too. ok, if you were trying to help her...   Mar 30 2006, 01:33 PM
hello moto   the more civilized way is just to ignore her, but ...   Mar 30 2006, 01:33 PM
juliar   also, i'd just like to add that we didn't ...   Mar 30 2006, 01:36 PM
hello moto   lol stupid stuff like "i want to die" ...   Mar 30 2006, 01:44 PM
juliar   ^ including pepperoni tits. and eddie, you know w...   Mar 30 2006, 01:45 PM
No Fear   Yeah but when do I ever shut up? I'm the hyper...   Mar 30 2006, 01:46 PM
racoons > you   QUOTE(hello moto @ Mar 30 2006, 7:33 PM) ...   Mar 30 2006, 02:54 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Mar 29 2006, 7:51 PM...   Mar 30 2006, 05:45 PM
CrackedRearView   But cutting yourself? Over cB chat?!   Mar 30 2006, 05:57 PM
nightmare4taki   PPl in the chat tell me to STFU all the time. They...   Mar 30 2006, 05:59 PM
CrackedRearView   ^ STFU.   Mar 30 2006, 06:09 PM
niez_cho   I don't know anything of what happened in the ...   Mar 31 2006, 07:22 AM
twin__cinema   QUOTE(niez_cho @ Mar 31 2006, 6:22 AM) I ...   Mar 31 2006, 01:16 PM
x__Elle.   QUOTE(twin__cinema @ Mar 31 2006, 1:16 PM...   Mar 31 2006, 01:53 PM
Smoogrish   I'm cuter than they are!   Mar 31 2006, 02:30 PM
xbabyboo   Omg.Thats awful..   Mar 31 2006, 03:04 PM
mona lisa   I know that this thread wasn't meant to create...   Mar 31 2006, 07:57 PM


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