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post Mar 22 2006, 09:08 PM
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Im not sure where this topic belongs but does anyone have any tips on how to become more outgoing?
 
 
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Levy2k6
post Mar 23 2006, 04:15 PM
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it took me 4 years to be like that.. i was so shy freshman year.. i think all u have to do is keep talk and talking and talking and eventually it will stick to u where u talk to other people.
 
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post Mar 29 2006, 08:26 PM
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QUOTE(Levy2k6 @ Mar 23 2006, 3:15 PM) *
it took me 4 years to be like that.. i was so shy freshman year.. i think all u have to do is keep talk and talking and talking and eventually it will stick to u where u talk to other people.



exactly the same here- wow, it was so hard to get to the point where I am now.

anyway, what i did was i put myself in social situations that made me uncomfortable. like maybe if someone invited me to.. say.. rock climbing, even if i was afraid that i'd fall on my butt and embarrass myself, i forced myself to go. and i usually ended up having a lot of fun =)
(this is for the extremely shy person btw, hope you're not that shy)

another thing i did was i started to talk to random people i didn't know, in class or wherever. you can make a lot of friends this way, even if you're awkward you'll at least have made an impression in their mind and chances are you will become friends.

yup, like everyone else said, smile a lot and say hello to people. i think smiling is the most important factor in giving off a friendly impression which will make people like you.
 

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Bridget_rules_4eva   become outgoing?   Mar 22 2006, 09:08 PM
digital.fragrance   Hmmm maybe this belongs in relationships. Anyway,...   Mar 22 2006, 09:19 PM
mipadi   The best way is to do things a little bit at a tim...   Mar 22 2006, 09:21 PM
L!ckitySplit   QUOTE(mipadi @ Mar 22 2006, 10:21 PM) The...   Mar 26 2006, 10:30 PM
subway   talk talk talk but be yourself   Mar 22 2006, 09:32 PM
ecargnmyst   join clubs and other school activities   Mar 23 2006, 12:34 AM
sillakilla220   since it seems like you are a girl i would suggest...   Mar 23 2006, 12:39 AM
yanners   QUOTE(sillakilla220 @ Mar 23 2006, 1:39 P...   Mar 23 2006, 08:21 AM
viola_winnie   talk more,laugh more!=)   Mar 23 2006, 08:36 AM
xnofearx   I'd say er...just...well...GO OUT!   Mar 23 2006, 12:05 PM
Programmer   it takes work to become outgoing...some people jus...   Mar 23 2006, 12:23 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   Well, you gotta fix your issue with self-confidenc...   Mar 23 2006, 03:22 PM
Bridget_rules_4eva   QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Mar 23 2006, 4...   Mar 23 2006, 04:40 PM
Levy2k6   it took me 4 years to be like that.. i was so shy ...   Mar 23 2006, 04:15 PM
anoniez   QUOTE(Levy2k6 @ Mar 23 2006, 3:15 PM) it ...   Mar 29 2006, 08:26 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   ^Oh then like I said, fix any of your problems wit...   Mar 23 2006, 04:53 PM
Acid Bath Slayer   Well, if you want to be more outgoing, you clearly...   Mar 23 2006, 04:58 PM
seremela_culnamo   I wish I can give you some good advice, but I...   Mar 24 2006, 10:49 PM
do i know you   be more confident   Mar 26 2006, 01:13 AM
nightowl89   try going to a party or just like a group gatherin...   Mar 26 2006, 11:38 AM
Syar   Be yourself, talk, smile.   Mar 26 2006, 01:41 PM
incoherent   interact with people youve never met/seen before. ...   Mar 26 2006, 01:53 PM
teeners__15   get more involved in school and just talk to peopl...   Mar 26 2006, 02:26 PM
peggysturr   I am quite shy of a person but I have many friends...   Mar 26 2006, 07:32 PM
INSANITY IS LAUGHING   I would say to make more friends with the same int...   Mar 26 2006, 08:27 PM
Paradox of Life   1) Never be prejudiced. Do not judge anyone, and d...   Mar 26 2006, 10:25 PM
angel_revelation   i guess take little steps at a time... and have y...   Mar 27 2006, 01:37 AM
newyork__lies   just progressively start talking more in class, ex...   Mar 29 2006, 12:21 PM
tanichick   #1 Be yourself, never become something you are not...   Mar 31 2006, 09:36 PM
lilxl0ser   lols you should join like clubs, sports, or any ki...   Mar 31 2006, 09:47 PM


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