bizarre friend problem, not sure if this is right |
bizarre friend problem, not sure if this is right |
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i recently returned from a 5 day trip with a group of friends. I have a close ( what i think ) is a brother sister relationship with a guy friend of mine.
A special thing that we have with each other is that he pets my hair ( like a cat sorta) and these past times i would fall asleep. my dreams during these periods of sleep were riddled with sexual thoughts (not of him) and intense feelings. Not to be overly graphic, but i had orgasmed more than once in my sleep. one time i woke slightly, to my hand being tugged and moved. he had placed my hand on his crotch where he was fully errect. this boy is like my brother, if i had known it was him, i doubt i would have been at all aroused. major problem: he has a steady girlfriend, is has NEVER done anything like this before, he is a polite, smart, funny, pleasant person. and he hasnt mentioned anything and believes i have no idea, because i am such a heavy sleeper. HELP! should i confont him?!? |
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First of all, confronting him about it doesn't mean you're going to lose a friend. Work out a comprimise. Tell him you knew what he did while you were sleeping that day and you want him to stop. And you don't have to explain it all in one sentence. You can say, "Hey about that day, when I fell asleep...I saw you.... (say what he did here)... And I want to talk about it."
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