bizarre friend problem, not sure if this is right |
 Mar 27 2006, 09:23 PM
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i recently returned from a 5 day trip with a group of friends. I have a close ( what i think ) is a brother sister relationship with a guy friend of mine.
A special thing that we have with each other is that he pets my hair ( like a cat sorta) and these past times i would fall asleep. my dreams during these periods of sleep were riddled with sexual thoughts (not of him) and intense feelings. Not to be overly graphic, but i had orgasmed more than once in my sleep. one time i woke slightly, to my hand being tugged and moved. he had placed my hand on his crotch where he was fully errect. this boy is like my brother, if i had known it was him, i doubt i would have been at all aroused. major problem: he has a steady girlfriend, is has NEVER done anything like this before, he is a polite, smart, funny, pleasant person. and he hasnt mentioned anything and believes i have no idea, because i am such a heavy sleeper. HELP! should i confont him?!? |
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Mar 29 2006, 05:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,869 |
you guys have been really supportive, but i cant find a way to bring it up.
im not at all nervous about discussing things like sex, im an extroverted girl with strong opinions about sex. (be safe!) But broaching this subject with myself as the victim literally terrifies me into stuttering. any ideas? i dont want too much time to pass. |
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Mar 29 2006, 05:51 PM
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QUOTE(trainspotting0116 @ Mar 29 2006, 4:41 PM)  you guys have been really supportive, but i cant find a way to bring it up. Just invite him to a private spot to talk. Let him know that you are serious and that it is very important. Make it known to him that you are aware of his actions and exactly how you feel about them. What he has been doing to you is not right and you should not have to be subject to any such occurances ever. Just be honest. Trust us, it is for the best that you speak with him about this. If he is non-responsive, I would suggest going to an adult or authority figure. |
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trainspotting0116 bizarre friend problem Mar 27 2006, 09:23 PM
mzkandi Moved to Relationships Mar 27 2006, 09:24 PM Chii Yes you should definately confront him. God knows ... Mar 27 2006, 11:28 PM priyas Definately confront him.
QUOTEone time i woke sl... Mar 28 2006, 12:59 AM trainspotting0116 i really think its a good idea to confront him... ... Mar 28 2006, 03:06 PM _sarcastic_ it's up to you.
but personally i'd confron... Mar 28 2006, 03:59 PM subway ew what a sicko tell him to f**k off Mar 28 2006, 05:33 PM silver rain Yeah, confront him. But I think you should go up t... Mar 28 2006, 06:33 PM Ice Cream 4 U I definately think you should confront him. I agre... Mar 28 2006, 09:59 PM ecargnmyst yes confront him. one of my guy friends also did ... Mar 28 2006, 10:24 PM
Ice Cream 4 U Maybe talk to him on aim about it?????????? Mar 29 2006, 05:43 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK If I were you back in that day and I saw him put m... Mar 29 2006, 05:45 PM trainspotting0116 ... i wish i did nail him in the balls....
i hate... Mar 29 2006, 06:06 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK First of all, confronting him about it doesn't... Mar 29 2006, 06:16 PM trainspotting0116 i attempted today, i couldnt get the words out
i ... Mar 30 2006, 05:04 PM Paradox of Life ^ Ask him if there's any sexual tension betwee... Mar 30 2006, 10:16 PM
Chii He sexually harassed you, don't try to be poli... Mar 31 2006, 02:33 PM |
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