bizarre friend problem, not sure if this is right |
 Mar 27 2006, 09:23 PM
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i recently returned from a 5 day trip with a group of friends. I have a close ( what i think ) is a brother sister relationship with a guy friend of mine.
A special thing that we have with each other is that he pets my hair ( like a cat sorta) and these past times i would fall asleep. my dreams during these periods of sleep were riddled with sexual thoughts (not of him) and intense feelings. Not to be overly graphic, but i had orgasmed more than once in my sleep. one time i woke slightly, to my hand being tugged and moved. he had placed my hand on his crotch where he was fully errect. this boy is like my brother, if i had known it was him, i doubt i would have been at all aroused. major problem: he has a steady girlfriend, is has NEVER done anything like this before, he is a polite, smart, funny, pleasant person. and he hasnt mentioned anything and believes i have no idea, because i am such a heavy sleeper. HELP! should i confont him?!? |
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Mar 28 2006, 06:33 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, confront him. But I think you should go up to him and tell him that you have something you'd like to speak with him about in private. And then, just tell him about the time you woke up with your hand on his crotch and ask him about it. Tell him that you view him as a brother, and that what he did can be viewed as molestation because you didn't agree to it. Also ask him if he's done other things to you like that and I guess let him know that you don't want to be put in that position with him anymore.
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trainspotting0116 bizarre friend problem Mar 27 2006, 09:23 PM
mzkandi Moved to Relationships Mar 27 2006, 09:24 PM Chii Yes you should definately confront him. God knows ... Mar 27 2006, 11:28 PM priyas Definately confront him.
QUOTEone time i woke sl... Mar 28 2006, 12:59 AM trainspotting0116 i really think its a good idea to confront him... ... Mar 28 2006, 03:06 PM _sarcastic_ it's up to you.
but personally i'd confron... Mar 28 2006, 03:59 PM subway ew what a sicko tell him to f**k off Mar 28 2006, 05:33 PM Ice Cream 4 U I definately think you should confront him. I agre... Mar 28 2006, 09:59 PM ecargnmyst yes confront him. one of my guy friends also did ... Mar 28 2006, 10:24 PM trainspotting0116 you guys have been really supportive, but i cant f... Mar 29 2006, 05:41 PM
Acid Bath Slayer QUOTE(trainspotting0116 @ Mar 29 2006, 4... Mar 29 2006, 05:51 PM Ice Cream 4 U Maybe talk to him on aim about it?????????? Mar 29 2006, 05:43 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK If I were you back in that day and I saw him put m... Mar 29 2006, 05:45 PM trainspotting0116 ... i wish i did nail him in the balls....
i hate... Mar 29 2006, 06:06 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK First of all, confronting him about it doesn't... Mar 29 2006, 06:16 PM trainspotting0116 i attempted today, i couldnt get the words out
i ... Mar 30 2006, 05:04 PM Paradox of Life ^ Ask him if there's any sexual tension betwee... Mar 30 2006, 10:16 PM Chii He sexually harassed you, don't try to be poli... Mar 31 2006, 02:33 PM |
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