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Im gettin married!!!!, !!!
crazi_in_love_08
post Mar 27 2006, 10:44 AM
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ahhh last night ... i was out with my boyfriend ... and he had asked me to marry him as soon as i get out of school ... we havent been together officially for that long .. but we have known each other for a verrry long time... he told me ... we still have a few years before we can be married because of my age ... but he didnt want to wait and ask me .. he wanted to do it last night!!!!!! from the first day i met him .. i knew this was it!!!
 
 
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KissMe2408
post Mar 28 2006, 12:20 PM
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First of all, congradulations, I'm glad this guy makes you happy, and that you found someone that you trust enough to even make this "promise ring" agreement.

However, I'm not here to spit at you about this decision, and I'm not here to judge you. I do know something about this though. Some people do meet their husbands in highschool and get married. My grandparents, my uncle and aunt, and they are both still in love and still married. However, remember you are 16. I guarentee you will change between now and a few years. I guarentee that your boyfriend will go through changes as well. I used to think that I wanted to get married right out of highschool, or atleast by 21 or 22. But this past year I have changed my mind. Marriage is incredibly serious, and a huge committment. It is important to know who you are, and to have your boyfriend know exactly who he is. He needs to be able to support you before he even asks the question. You are 16, you have your entire life ahead of you. Don't you have dreams? Dreams of going places and meeting new people. You want to truly live life, and be comfortable with who you are before you make a decision like this.
I'm glad you are in love, it can be a wonderful thing. however, talking marriage this young is dangerous. Trust me, it does nothing but cause damage. If it was meant to be, then you can discuss it further down the road when you are atleast old enough to drink at your wedding. But for now, just enjoy highschool, enjoy going to prom with him, and really don't try to grow up too fast. You are 16, embrace that!
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crazi_in_love_08   Im gettin married!!!!   Mar 27 2006, 10:44 AM
Zatanna   Well, congratulations... Having said that - Pardo...   Mar 27 2006, 11:27 AM
incoherent   are you kidding? you're a sophomore in highsch...   Mar 27 2006, 11:34 AM
disco infiltrator   You're a sophomore?! I'm a sophomore t...   Mar 27 2006, 12:24 PM
mipadi   I hate to rain on your parade, because I'm sur...   Mar 27 2006, 12:40 PM
crazi_in_love_08   ok well i said we were waiting till i was out of s...   Mar 27 2006, 01:01 PM
Chii   You're going to get married to your Jealous Bo...   Mar 27 2006, 01:27 PM
priyas   QUOTE(Chii @ Mar 27 2006, 10:27 AM) You...   Mar 27 2006, 09:22 PM
Flavored Condom   Y'know, I'm niether going to discourage yo...   Mar 27 2006, 04:44 PM
aznxdreamer   uh...are you really taking this seriously? it soun...   Mar 27 2006, 04:48 PM
_sarcastic_   wow, congrats. it's a little early don't y...   Mar 27 2006, 05:20 PM
Ice Cream 4 U   Well, congratulations..I'm guessing that you...   Mar 27 2006, 05:43 PM
Angelina Taylor   Sorry to break this to you, but I seriously doubt ...   Mar 27 2006, 09:15 PM
APPLEjuicex   08..thats the same age i am. you do know that gett...   Mar 27 2006, 09:24 PM
aicilah999   a little early, but congratz.   Mar 27 2006, 09:39 PM
L!ckitySplit   this is so naive, get your shit straight before yo...   Mar 27 2006, 09:43 PM
angel_revelation   congrats, but i hope you know what you're doin...   Mar 27 2006, 10:15 PM
KissMe2408   First of all, congradulations, I'm glad this g...   Mar 28 2006, 12:20 PM
aubbob.   wow.... im shocked..thats kind of strange sorry. ...   Mar 28 2006, 01:09 PM
x__Elle.   Well guys it's not like she's getting marr...   Mar 28 2006, 02:16 PM
ecargnmyst   well..yeah..everyone else has pretty much said eve...   Mar 28 2006, 10:14 PM


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