Im gettin married!!!!, !!! |
 Mar 27 2006, 10:44 AM
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 hes the reason i smile.. <3  Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486  |
ahhh last night ... i was out with my boyfriend ... and he had asked me to marry him as soon as i get out of school ... we havent been together officially for that long .. but we have known each other for a verrry long time... he told me ... we still have a few years before we can be married because of my age ... but he didnt want to wait and ask me .. he wanted to do it last night!!!!!! from the first day i met him .. i knew this was it!!!
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Mar 27 2006, 12:40 PM
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I hate to rain on your parade, because I'm sure this news is exciting, but…your profile says you are 16. Do you really feel this commitment is strong enough and a good thing at such a young age? Being young is about having no real commitments—being able to get out there and explore everything. Marriage—and even an extremely committed relationship—brings a lot of responsibilities. Maybe I'm "showing my age" a bit, but looking back on my high school years, they were great because I really had nothing to worry about. Now I have a lot of responsibilities, and I'd gladly trade them for my carefree days.
I'm not saying it's a bad idea, and like I said, I hate to "spit on your news", so to speak. But perhaps you want to think about why you want to get married, and make sure that the guy (who you admitted you haven't been seeing for very long) is the right one for you. Commitment is a big deal. I have two friends who have been seeing each other for three years, since their junior year of high school. They're very committed and have been for a long time—and they're not even considering marriage until they're both out of college. Take some time to think about it and make sure you aren't rushing headfirst into something you're not ready for. Marriage is for the rest of your life. |
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crazi_in_love_08 Im gettin married!!!! Mar 27 2006, 10:44 AM
Zatanna Well, congratulations...
Having said that - Pardo... Mar 27 2006, 11:27 AM incoherent are you kidding? you're a sophomore in highsch... Mar 27 2006, 11:34 AM disco infiltrator You're a sophomore?! I'm a sophomore t... Mar 27 2006, 12:24 PM crazi_in_love_08 ok well i said we were waiting till i was out of s... Mar 27 2006, 01:01 PM Chii You're going to get married to your Jealous Bo... Mar 27 2006, 01:27 PM
priyas QUOTE(Chii @ Mar 27 2006, 10:27 AM) You... Mar 27 2006, 09:22 PM Flavored Condom Y'know, I'm niether going to discourage yo... Mar 27 2006, 04:44 PM aznxdreamer uh...are you really taking this seriously? it soun... Mar 27 2006, 04:48 PM _sarcastic_ wow, congrats.
it's a little early don't y... Mar 27 2006, 05:20 PM Ice Cream 4 U Well, congratulations..I'm guessing that you... Mar 27 2006, 05:43 PM Angelina Taylor Sorry to break this to you, but I seriously doubt ... Mar 27 2006, 09:15 PM APPLEjuicex 08..thats the same age i am. you do know that gett... Mar 27 2006, 09:24 PM aicilah999 a little early, but congratz. Mar 27 2006, 09:39 PM L!ckitySplit this is so naive, get your shit straight before yo... Mar 27 2006, 09:43 PM angel_revelation congrats, but i hope you know what you're doin... Mar 27 2006, 10:15 PM KissMe2408 First of all, congradulations, I'm glad this g... Mar 28 2006, 12:20 PM aubbob. wow....
im shocked..thats kind of strange sorry. ... Mar 28 2006, 01:09 PM x__Elle. Well guys it's not like she's getting marr... Mar 28 2006, 02:16 PM ecargnmyst well..yeah..everyone else has pretty much said eve... Mar 28 2006, 10:14 PM |
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