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Aftermath of a long term realationship
midnite
post Jan 23 2006, 11:56 PM
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How do you cope with breaking up in a long term realationships?
 
 
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lilnatcat
post Mar 27 2006, 08:41 AM
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Get a new bf/gf?!?!?!?!! But won't that be unfair to the new bf/gf coz ur using them as a rebound?

Mine would'nt be a long term relationship compared to u guys out there eventhough when we started dating we knew that we were both looking for long term relationships........ and i could picture us together long term..........

*Lots of ice cream

*Lots of crying

*Talk to frds

*Torturing myself with photos of us/memories of us.............

*Still GETTING tortured by the place he broke up with me which was a park near our houses coz we live 10-15 minutes walking distance from each other.... & i have to wait infront of that park for the next few years for bus to go to Uni..... eventhough I'm trying my best to avoid having to take the bus at the moment. But if mum's too busy and can't take me then i'll hve to take the bus to the train station.....

*Think what I learned from that relationship & how to improve myself if anything was wrong

*Try to relax

*Keep myself busy so that I won't think about it too much

*See if there's a possibility we can become "real" friends again, since he let me be his frd when he asked...... we won't be talking online for a while.... i want to give him some space and for myself too so that he can be comfortable with being frds with me again.....if thats ever possible...... so yea...
 

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midnite   Aftermath of a long term realationship   Jan 23 2006, 11:56 PM
salcha   eat chocolate, be emo, get a new girlfriend/boyfri...   Jan 24 2006, 12:40 AM
xnofearx   QUOTE(salcha @ Jan 24 2006, 12:40 AM)eat choc...   Jan 24 2006, 10:40 AM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   QUOTE(salcha @ Jan 24 2006, 12:40 AM) eat...   Mar 6 2006, 04:57 PM
lilxl0ser   QUOTE(salcha @ Jan 24 2006, 12:40 AM) eat...   Mar 9 2006, 11:10 PM
babygurl_xtacy   only time can heal   Jan 24 2006, 12:45 AM
K!$$   I can't.. at least, not yet. Meanwhile i like...   Jan 24 2006, 04:48 AM
Days Nearly Over   QUOTE(K!$$ @ Jan 24 2006, 5:48 ...   Jan 24 2006, 05:39 PM
mouse_3k   With my first love, I got ova him when I just stop...   Jan 24 2006, 11:24 AM
Chii   QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Jan 24 2006, 11:24 AM)With m...   Jan 24 2006, 03:25 PM
lit0chinagirl   QUOTE(Chii @ Jan 24 2006, 4:25 PM)i agree...t...   Jan 24 2006, 06:18 PM
upf147   problems like that, i dont eat anything, i just st...   Jan 24 2006, 03:48 PM
Levy2k6   after my first love, it was also a long relationsh...   Jan 24 2006, 08:53 PM
Shortiiex   you just need to have fun..party with your friends...   Jan 25 2006, 11:09 AM
LittleLulu   its really hard. And seeing him everyday at school...   Jan 25 2006, 03:22 PM
_sarcastic_   QUOTE(Chii @ Jan 24 2006, 3:25 PM)i agree...t...   Jan 25 2006, 06:16 PM
iNyCxShoRT   Well; my friends always say I should avoid the per...   Jan 25 2006, 07:09 PM
pastellove_   when my bf broke up with his ex after a years rela...   Mar 4 2006, 11:16 PM
shes out   Im not the kind of person to show emotion, unless ...   Mar 5 2006, 02:10 AM
lil_bit   whenever i had a long term relationship and we end...   Mar 5 2006, 03:29 PM
SimplicityGirl   Avoid all contact. This means no talking, no going...   Mar 5 2006, 06:44 PM
Im too punk rock for this   i dunno about yall but listening to music and writ...   Mar 6 2006, 03:39 PM
x0xIlmBx0x   try to find a hobby..comfort food more comfort foo...   Mar 6 2006, 04:51 PM
icy_wonderland   its been a year and no, i am still not over him. =...   Mar 9 2006, 06:12 AM
x Ragazza   I really take it hard. My current boyfriend has b...   Mar 9 2006, 09:52 AM
Rachel is love   QUOTE(x Ragazza @ Mar 9 2006, 7:52 AM) I ...   Mar 30 2006, 08:50 PM
xosugarkissesox   I usually get really depressed. But I talk to som...   Mar 9 2006, 07:49 PM
do i know you   be patience and go out more. just have a blast wi...   Mar 26 2006, 01:39 AM
lil_nat_cat   Get a new bf/gf?!?!?!?!! But ...   Mar 27 2006, 08:41 AM
disco infiltrator   I know it's really frustrating when people tel...   Mar 27 2006, 12:32 PM
twin__cinema   Don't eat for weeks. Cry. Cry. Cry. Fetal posi...   Mar 28 2006, 06:07 PM
acidophilus   I find curbstomping them to be an appropriate way ...   Mar 29 2006, 08:27 PM
subway   pretend you have your period because you have an e...   Mar 30 2006, 05:13 PM
priyas   watch sad movies. attempt to become friends. me an...   Mar 31 2006, 06:35 PM
FreeStickers   I take it really hard, because in a long term rela...   Apr 2 2006, 10:58 AM
Angelina Taylor   What I did the first time I broke up with my boyfr...   Apr 2 2006, 11:41 AM
INSANITY IS LAUGHING   Take up a new hobby or something that you can imme...   Apr 2 2006, 01:18 PM
Programmer   just dissappear...get your mind on other things yo...   Apr 2 2006, 02:04 PM
lavandercat   cry, eat, sleep, cry eat, sleep and then one day j...   Apr 11 2006, 09:59 PM
SuzieRawkSoxx   You know i really dont know what to tell you becau...   Apr 12 2006, 08:33 PM
damn penguin.   i just find things to distract myself from thinkin...   Apr 12 2006, 08:42 PM
imnoxonesmemory   as much as it hurts... you need to stop contact. i...   Apr 12 2006, 11:59 PM


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