jealous boyfriend?, ugh |
 Mar 23 2006, 07:35 PM
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 hes the reason i smile.. <3  Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486  |
ok well ive known my boyfriend for about a year now. we made it official a little over a month now .. everything is perfect.. im 16 and still in school he is 18 soon to be 19.. he comes over about every other day during the week whenever he doesnt have to work and we are together every weekend.. there is one thing that does bug me though. he gets jealous very easily .. i am kinda a redneckish girl and pretty much all of my friends are guys .. when i talk to them or the call me hes gets really mad .. i understand why .. because he cares for me and he wants him to be the only guy i talk about.. i am kinda the same way ... but i havent been lately .. he said he wants to get over it and he wants me to help him get over it .. but how ?? please help .. a little advice ?
 kthxbye <3
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Mar 24 2006, 03:35 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
Ugh, he reminds me of my psycho ex, he was incredibly possessive, he didn't even want me talking to any guy via AIM.
Please don't buy into that "he's only jealous because he cares." If he really cared, he would be fine with you associating with your FRIENDS. They're your friends, not strangers. Talk to him and let him know that you want to be with him, and that he is your boyfriend. Those guys are just your friends. It's ridiculous and unfair to force someone to just associate with one member of a certain gender. If he can't understand then you should just get out of the relationship. Don't allow anyone to control you like that. |
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Mar 25 2006, 11:23 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(Chii @ Mar 24 2006, 2:35 AM)  Ugh, he reminds me of my psycho ex, he was incredibly possessive, he didn't even want me talking to any guy via AIM. Please don't buy into that "he's only jealous because he cares." If he really cared, he would be fine with you associating with your FRIENDS. They're your friends, not strangers. Talk to him and let him know that you want to be with him, and that he is your boyfriend. Those guys are just your friends. It's ridiculous and unfair to force someone to just associate with one member of a certain gender. If he can't understand then you should just get out of the relationship. Don't allow anyone to control you like that. Agreed. He's upset because he doesn't trust you with other guys and that's a problem. Explain to him that you have friends that are just friends and only one that is your boyfriend. Tell him if he really trusted you and really cared about you, he wouldn't be concerned about you and your guy friends. |
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