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 Mar 14 2006, 03:49 PM
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My friend is a year younger than me in 7th grade (he's 13), he's dating someone 6 months younger than him. Twp days ago on AIM, I said hi and I asked him what was going on, and he told me his girlfriend wanted to have sex with him. ...I wasn't shocked that SHE wanted to have sex with him because she wasn't so smart in the first place (if you know what I mean), but he doesn't want to do "it". Unfortunately, he's kind of a pushover so he told her he'd have sex with her 4 nights from now.
I do NOT know how to help him out of this situation. I believe he should tell his girlfriend himself, but he's asked all of our friends for advice and they all said to tell his girlfriend he wasn't ready. then today, he told me he actually wanted to lose his virginity  . I can't talk him out of it, despite the facts I told him about underage sex (consequences and all). He's stubborn as ever... give me ideas on how to convince him to at least wait till he's 18!
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Mar 15 2006, 07:05 AM
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Personally, I don' t think his sex life is any of your buisness, let alone ours. If you tried to talk to him and it didn't work, oh well.
Let him do it and suffer the consequences, if there will even be any. |
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Mar 16 2006, 10:42 AM
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You seem to have a good handle on why you're concerned; I think the best option is to sit him down and have an honest heart-to-heart talk with him. Let him know why you're concerned. You can't make the decision for him, but you can help him out a bit.
QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Mar 15 2006, 7:05 AM)  Personally, I don' t think his sex life is any of your buisness, let alone ours. If you tried to talk to him and it didn't work, oh well. Let him do it and suffer the consequences, if there will even be any. It's never a bad thing to show someone why they might be making a bad decision. The decision is still his; but a friend is a person who keeps us from doing stupid things. Sex at such an early age can cause a lot of problems, and there's nothing wrong with trying to show a person those problems. |
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Blow_Don't_SUCK Pathetic, pathetic Mar 14 2006, 03:49 PM
zomgznoway Well, it sounds like you've already tried talk... Mar 14 2006, 03:51 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK QUOTE(zomgznoway @ Mar 14 2006, 3:51 PM) ... Mar 14 2006, 03:53 PM digital.fragrance That's WAY to young - wow... tell him that eve... Mar 14 2006, 03:54 PM BrokenDream Oh wow. That's just pathetic. I would just... Mar 14 2006, 04:33 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK Rachael, I never brought that whole tearing them a... Mar 14 2006, 05:09 PM juliar Whoa. Ew.
Anyway, four nights from now you have t... Mar 14 2006, 05:10 PM tic tac. Wow, that's like me saying I want to have sex.... Mar 14 2006, 08:24 PM Shahin I wouldn;t tell a parent cuhz snitches are scum.
... Mar 14 2006, 08:30 PM silver rain Hmm, that is really too young. And, they both don... Mar 14 2006, 08:32 PM BOLIN_Vee wow 13 ... damn
im 13 too. and i know that 13 is t... Mar 14 2006, 08:42 PM x_lilvietdreamer_x QUOTE(BOLIN_Vee @ Mar 14 2006, 7:42 PM) w... Mar 17 2006, 12:06 AM sillakilla220 oh wow i hope your ex doesnt turn this P**sy down... Mar 14 2006, 08:52 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK QUOTE(sillakilla220 @ Mar 14 2006, 8:52 P... Mar 15 2006, 12:24 AM _sarcastic_ just keep reminding him about the consequences tha... Mar 14 2006, 09:04 PM pastellove_ The only thing you can do is continue to get the m... Mar 15 2006, 12:48 AM Blow_Don't_SUCK QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Mar 15 2006, 7:05 ... Mar 15 2006, 03:28 PM digital.fragrance QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Mar 15 2006, 3... Mar 15 2006, 03:45 PM Angelina Taylor If I were you, I'd tell his parents. That shou... Mar 16 2006, 01:33 PM Rachel is love QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Mar 16 2006, 11:3... Mar 16 2006, 02:27 PM Shahin QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Mar 16 2006, 11:27... Mar 16 2006, 10:54 PM xnofearx 13 is really young. I lost mine when I was 17... Mar 16 2006, 02:33 PM digital.fragrance By the way you guys - she told me that her friend ... Mar 17 2006, 12:41 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK QUOTE(digital.fragrance @ Mar 17 2006, 12... Mar 17 2006, 09:27 PM aicilah999 well tell him the consequences, and if he still wo... Mar 17 2006, 07:16 PM iNyCxShoRT Perhaps he doesn't get the fact in his head th... Mar 17 2006, 07:26 PM |
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