Am I crazy?, =/ |
 Mar 9 2006, 06:19 PM
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Okay, so my current boyfriend has broken up with me four {Count it, FOUR} times in the past because he wasn't sure about how he felt anymore, blah blah, the same old saying. We've been on and off since 8th grade, and I'm a junior now. o_0
He has always found some other chick that he likes and then drops me like a hot potatoe, and basically ignores me for the duration of his new relationship. But I keep taking him back. And everytime when he wants me back he says that he'll never treat me like that again, he's sorry, he was stupid and didn't realize how important I am to him, etc. I guess I keep taking him back because I have a bit of false hope that maybe this time it will work..and maybe I'm right. He's been so sweet to me, and he's really been paying attention to me this time. It hurts him everytime I talk about how nervous/scared I am, and he understands that I have reason to be. But he keeps telling me to relax and instill some faith in him. I told him, after about six months, that I'm finally not afraid anymore.. But I still am. I love him..so much. I'm a bit of a romantic and I keep thinking about how sweet it would be to tell my future friends in college, "Oh, we've been together since the eighth grade." Plus I'm forgiving. Being with him is sometimes like a drug. When he pays attention to me, nothing else matters {As clichéd as that sounds.}. What do you think? Am I too forgiving? Should I keep trying to make it work? |
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Mar 15 2006, 05:29 PM
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sorry, but i don't think you should have forgave him the first three or four times...he dumpt you once and you got back with him- you're forgiving. the dumps you again and you forgive him AGAIN...--sorry but that's just plain stupid. and you didn't do it TWICE...you did it MORE than twice! come on....you can't even TRUST him...theres no relationship without trust. YOU might as well be the one to end it this time. it's no use...the only reason you think you're going to regret it is because well, YOU'RE THINKING...stop thinking! the future holds so much more than you can imagine...stop thinking about "the one" and what not...just live life..and one day you never know, you might meet someone MORE amazing and one that will actually treat you right.
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x Ragazza Am I crazy? Mar 9 2006, 06:19 PM
Levy2k6 Funny cuz i know couples like that my junior year.... Mar 9 2006, 06:28 PM BOLIN_Vee i think you should give him another chance. just ... Mar 9 2006, 06:31 PM Chii i know how you feel about that great story to tell... Mar 9 2006, 11:47 PM
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don... Mar 10 2006, 11:57 AM pinayprincess there are more fishes in the sea!! drop hi... Mar 10 2006, 06:02 PM instantmusic theres 6 billion people on this planet. hes not y... Mar 10 2006, 11:44 PM i_liek_sushi you're f**king psycho Mar 11 2006, 12:16 AM APPLEjuicex well, you have to understand that if you keep taki... Mar 12 2006, 10:17 AM Blow_Don't_SUCK Why do you let him do this to you? Keep taking him... Mar 12 2006, 11:12 AM shes out Most people do that to test their partner's lo... Mar 12 2006, 01:20 PM SimplicityGirl I think you've given him way too many chances.... Mar 12 2006, 11:17 PM novemberwind In his eyes, you=backup.
Stop it. Mar 13 2006, 12:37 AM incoherent sounds like my brother and his ex. they got back t... Mar 13 2006, 01:17 PM iNyCxShoRT You remind me a lot of myself. Me and my boyfrien... Mar 13 2006, 11:17 PM FATALxKiSSES I know people like that. Like me and my -ex. We we... Mar 14 2006, 11:43 AM x Ragazza It's SO hard. Easier said than done.
I know t... Mar 15 2006, 04:35 PM islandkiss oh hun; let him go. no guy like that deserves a gi... Mar 18 2006, 08:15 PM aicilah999 if you really love him, give him ONLY 1 MORE CHANC... Mar 21 2006, 10:38 PM x Ragazza I know. I will. Mar 22 2006, 09:28 AM wickedvampire3 dont you think 4 times is too much.....? you must ... Mar 22 2006, 04:40 PM |
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