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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
 Mar 14 2006, 03:49 PM
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My friend is a year younger than me in 7th grade (he's 13), he's dating someone 6 months younger than him. Twp days ago on AIM, I said hi and I asked him what was going on, and he told me his girlfriend wanted to have sex with him. ...I wasn't shocked that SHE wanted to have sex with him because she wasn't so smart in the first place (if you know what I mean), but he doesn't want to do "it". Unfortunately, he's kind of a pushover so he told her he'd have sex with her 4 nights from now.
I do NOT know how to help him out of this situation. I believe he should tell his girlfriend himself, but he's asked all of our friends for advice and they all said to tell his girlfriend he wasn't ready. then today, he told me he actually wanted to lose his virginity  . I can't talk him out of it, despite the facts I told him about underage sex (consequences and all). He's stubborn as ever... give me ideas on how to convince him to at least wait till he's 18!
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Mar 15 2006, 07:05 AM
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Personally, I don' t think his sex life is any of your buisness, let alone ours. If you tried to talk to him and it didn't work, oh well.
Let him do it and suffer the consequences, if there will even be any. |
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Mar 15 2006, 03:28 PM
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QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Mar 15 2006, 7:05 AM)  Personally, I don' t think his sex life is any of your buisness, let alone ours. If you tried to talk to him and it didn't work, oh well. Let him do it and suffer the consequences, if there will even be any. He's ONLY 13. He shouldn't even have a sex life. True it's not my business, but I care of what's going to happen to him. Someone already mentioned about letting him learn the hard way, and my answer was no because I don't want anything bad to happen to him. What if he gets some kind of STD or if the girl gets pregnant? Do you expect me to say, "Oh well, we all learn the hard way." I'd be irresponsible as a friend if I let anything like that happen. Beisdes, aren't we all taught to help our loved ones no matter what? I'm trying my best to. |
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Mar 15 2006, 03:45 PM
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QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Mar 15 2006, 3:28 PM) He's ONLY 13. He shouldn't even have a sex life. True it's not my business, but I care of what's going to happen to him. Someone already mentioned about letting him learn the hard way, and my answer was no because I don't want anything bad to happen to him. What if he gets some kind of STD or if the girl gets pregnant? Do you expect me to say, "Oh well, we all learn the hard way." I'd be irresponsible as a friend if I let anything like that happen. Beisdes, aren't we all taught to help our loved ones no matter what? I'm trying my best to. Yes, you should seek to be his friend most importantly, and in being his friend, you should care about him (kind of how friends don't let friends drink)... friends don't let friends do stuff that would cause them harm. I'll pray for him, and for the ditzy girl. Unfortunately, some people do have to learn the hard way, but in this case it's aviodable. Keep talking to him - show him you care most of all about his physical and emotional state - as a friend being the chief phrase. If he can understand how much you are concerned about him, and his future (because sex affects that), and then back up your statements with solid facts, that should at least jar his mind into some good sense. Once again, I'm praying for you, for him, and for that girl. I do hope you keep us updated on what goes on. |
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Blow_Don't_SUCK Pathetic, pathetic Mar 14 2006, 03:49 PM
zomgznoway Well, it sounds like you've already tried talk... Mar 14 2006, 03:51 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK QUOTE(zomgznoway @ Mar 14 2006, 3:51 PM) ... Mar 14 2006, 03:53 PM digital.fragrance That's WAY to young - wow... tell him that eve... Mar 14 2006, 03:54 PM BrokenDream Oh wow. That's just pathetic. I would just... Mar 14 2006, 04:33 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK Rachael, I never brought that whole tearing them a... Mar 14 2006, 05:09 PM juliar Whoa. Ew.
Anyway, four nights from now you have t... Mar 14 2006, 05:10 PM tic tac. Wow, that's like me saying I want to have sex.... Mar 14 2006, 08:24 PM Shahin I wouldn;t tell a parent cuhz snitches are scum.
... Mar 14 2006, 08:30 PM silver rain Hmm, that is really too young. And, they both don... Mar 14 2006, 08:32 PM BOLIN_Vee wow 13 ... damn
im 13 too. and i know that 13 is t... Mar 14 2006, 08:42 PM x_lilvietdreamer_x QUOTE(BOLIN_Vee @ Mar 14 2006, 7:42 PM) w... Mar 17 2006, 12:06 AM sillakilla220 oh wow i hope your ex doesnt turn this P**sy down... Mar 14 2006, 08:52 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK QUOTE(sillakilla220 @ Mar 14 2006, 8:52 P... Mar 15 2006, 12:24 AM _sarcastic_ just keep reminding him about the consequences tha... Mar 14 2006, 09:04 PM pastellove_ The only thing you can do is continue to get the m... Mar 15 2006, 12:48 AM mipadi You seem to have a good handle on why you're c... Mar 16 2006, 10:42 AM Angelina Taylor If I were you, I'd tell his parents. That shou... Mar 16 2006, 01:33 PM Rachel is love QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Mar 16 2006, 11:3... Mar 16 2006, 02:27 PM Shahin QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Mar 16 2006, 11:27... Mar 16 2006, 10:54 PM xnofearx 13 is really young. I lost mine when I was 17... Mar 16 2006, 02:33 PM digital.fragrance By the way you guys - she told me that her friend ... Mar 17 2006, 12:41 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK QUOTE(digital.fragrance @ Mar 17 2006, 12... Mar 17 2006, 09:27 PM aicilah999 well tell him the consequences, and if he still wo... Mar 17 2006, 07:16 PM iNyCxShoRT Perhaps he doesn't get the fact in his head th... Mar 17 2006, 07:26 PM |
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