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 Mar 11 2006, 11:24 PM
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you and your gf/bf go to different schools and neither of you can drive.
their best friend is the opposite sex, and you trust both him and her. but when in a deep talk, you ask your gf/bf if they like their best friend. they've had a fling before, but it was long ago and they're strictly just friends now. or so you think. they both have good morals, and you know that you weren't cheated on or will be. nevertheless, would you still feel threatened when they admit that they have liked their best friend on and off during your relationship. |
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Mar 12 2006, 01:37 AM
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actually, i'd be more offended than threatened. if i'm someone's girlfriend, it's kind of a big slap in the face if they tell me they like their best friend while they're still dating me.
threatened? not really, i'd probably dump him. i can't be with someone who occasionally likes their best friend of the opposite sex. what's to stop him from being more than friends? since they're such "good friends" with their "morals" and all, what if they don't believe certain things equal to cheating? for example, them snuggling together, "but she's my best friend" oh hell no 
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Mar 13 2006, 06:25 PM
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QUOTE(Chii @ Mar 12 2006, 1:37 AM)  actually, i'd be more offended than threatened. if i'm someone's girlfriend, it's kind of a big slap in the face if they tell me they like their best friend while they're still dating me. ^ I agree with Chii.threatened? not really, i'd probably dump him. i can't be with someone who occasionally likes their best friend of the opposite sex. what's to stop him from being more than friends? since they're such "good friends" with their "morals" and all, what if they don't believe certain things equal to cheating? for example, them snuggling together, "but she's my best friend" oh hell no I would be offended and I would probably feel bad to hear that he liked his best friend WHILE we were still going out. |
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oOjenniOo Would you be threatened... Mar 11 2006, 11:24 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK No I wouldn't feel threatened, unless real sig... Mar 11 2006, 11:41 PM tic tac. ^ What Yen said. Most of the couples I know, their... Mar 12 2006, 12:16 AM
pinayprincess yes;
my bf is going through that now, my best fr... Mar 12 2006, 11:06 AM _sarcastic_ i went out with my bf for nearly 1 1/2 years, then... Mar 12 2006, 01:07 PM shes out I agree with Chii. I want someone who's only c... Mar 12 2006, 01:12 PM broken_lance they admit that they like each other and that real... Mar 13 2006, 05:39 AM xcaitlinx i wouldn't feel "threatened" persay,... Mar 13 2006, 07:46 PM Intercourse. No, it was one point in time it doesn't really... Mar 20 2007, 10:27 PM Uronacid No, because she has already done this... *sigh* Sh... Mar 20 2007, 10:28 PM
unconfirmed_existance It really depends on how much I trust the person.
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