Showing No Affection Options

[Im So Vain]

Well I have been going out with my boyfriend for two months now, and he never shows any affection toward me. By that I mean hugs, kisses, etc. (you know) Im kind of worried though. I mean at least a hug every now and then would be cool, but he's never (ever) really touched me once, and Im confused about it. I thought it might have something to do with the fact that Im a virgin and he's not, but I dont know. I feel so unloved. What should I do? I dont know how to tell him how I feel about that.

[Paradox of Life]

Put simply, he's losing interest in you. He cares less about what you think about him, so he doesn't feel a need to hug or kiss you. How do you fix that? Invite him out to dinner. Surprise him. Give him a gift. Just wake him up, so he really knows what's up.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Put simply, he's losing interest in you. He cares less about what you think about him, so he doesn't feel a need to hug or kiss you. How do you fix that? Invite him out to dinner. Surprise him. Give him a gift. Just wake him up, so he really knows what's up.

Uhhh .... I disagree with that.

He probably doesn't know whether or not it's alright if he can make moves on you, so he ends up getting nervous and not doing anything. My friend Saraya's boyfriend was like that the first time he ever met her, he wouldn't do anything with her for a while because he respected her too much and wanted her to be very very sure of what she was doing with him. All the while Saraya was also thinking "Wtf ? Why aint this boy kissin' me and huggin' me and whatnot ?" And it turned out he didn't want her to think he was pressuring her into doing anything she wasn't ready for.

I think that's what he might be doing with you. Just either ask him about it, or make a move on him. Pucker up those lips and let him see a lil' but of what he was missin (:

[Paradox of Life]

b' date='Mar 12 2006, 11:21 PM' post='1944471']
Uhhh .... I disagree with that.

He probably doesn't know whether or not it's alright if he can make moves on you, so he ends up getting nervous and not doing anything. My friend Saraya's boyfriend was like that the first time he ever met her, he wouldn't do anything with her for a while because he respected her too much and wanted her to be very very sure of what she was doing with him. All the while Saraya was also thinking "Wtf ? Why aint this boy kissin' me and huggin' me and whatnot ?" And it turned out he didn't want her to think he was pressuring her into doing anything she wasn't ready for.

I think that's what he might be doing with you. Just either ask him about it, or make a move on him. Pucker up those lips and let him see a lil' but of what he was missin (:

Yeh. That's true. What I mean in 'losing interest' is not as direct and harsh as it sounds. It's something in the back of your mind, you know? When you don't feel like you need to impress anyone and you just kind of chill from the 'up-close and personal' relationship and just act like you're friends with the person.