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Showing No Affection
Im So Vain
post Mar 12 2006, 07:27 PM
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Well I have been going out with my boyfriend for two months now, and he never shows any affection toward me. By that I mean hugs, kisses, etc. (you know) Im kind of worried though. I mean at least a hug every now and then would be cool, but he's never (ever) really touched me once, and Im confused about it. I thought it might have something to do with the fact that Im a virgin and he's not, but I dont know. I feel so unloved. What should I do? I dont know how to tell him how I feel about that.
 
 
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post Mar 12 2006, 08:48 PM
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Perhaps he's not the touchy type. Well if he doesn't show affection, then you should start. Maybe he's afraid? If you want you can talk to him about it, or surprise him with a hug.
 
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post Mar 12 2006, 10:39 PM
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QUOTE(xcaitlinx @ Mar 12 2006, 5:07 PM) *
i don't think that you being a virgin should have anything to do with him giving you affection. maybe he's just not the kind of guy that is very "touchy-feely". i think the best thing you can do is tell him how you feel. maybe he thinks that you don't want him to touch you and kiss you and is waiting for you to tell him when you feel comfortable enough?


Thanks that's some really good advice. Guess I have to tell him how I feel.


QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Mar 12 2006, 5:48 PM) *
Perhaps he's not the touchy type. Well if he doesn't show affection, then you should start. Maybe he's afraid? If you want you can talk to him about it, or surprise him with a hug.


Yeah that could be true. This may sound odd but if I could I would hella want to meet some of his ex's to ask if he was the same way with them, when they were together. So I dont feel like Im the only one. But that's weird. Just a thought though.
 

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