i hate drama., dont you? Options

[loljuliana]

So basically, this is how everything is.

Well, it started way back when I liked this guy. Lets call him Fred. Soon I stopped liking him, and then one of my really close friends, lets call her, Grace, starts liking him. A couple months later, I start liking him again. We were both alright with the fact that we both liked him. Soon enough, I told a friend of mine, lets call her Vicky, to tell him that I liked him, just to see what he would say.

Time went on. Me&Fred would talk often. I asked him who he liked, and he refused to tell me unless I told him who I liked. Feeling awkward, I didnt tell him.

So Vicky asks him who he liked, and he told her that he liked me.
And then later on, I was able to tell him that I liked him. He told me that he liked me too.
But then now, I cant be in a relationship with him because Grace liked him too. I wouldnt do that to her.
I felt as if I would be going behind her back by not telling her that I told him that I liked him and that he liked me back. And so I told her, and she said she didnt care anymore. Of course, I didnt believe her. But no matter how many times I asked her, she would tell me she was alright. And I told Fred what happened, and he seemed to believe that she was really okay with it.

And now, Grace spends alot of time with one of my other best friends, lets call her Julie. And now I feel as if I just had one of my best friends stolen. Cause now they are always together, and I would always just be lagging behind in the back. They would sometimes just leave me alone somewhere and go somewhere else by themselves.

So basically, I dont know what to do with Fred, and I feel abandoned by my friends.

If you were me, what would you do?

[NgocQuyen]

to be honest with you, if i were in your shoes, i would say the eff with grace and i would go try things out with fred. i mean apparently grace isn't a very good friend to you by not being able to understand your feelings. i mean she should know that "crushes" for guys can come and go, but you never throw away your friendship just because the guy you like likes your friend...that's just stupid..so yeahh....grace isn't a good friend and you should just talk to fred and hang out with him more...that's just what i would do...i mean you like him and he likes you...sooo why the not?