"I'm Not Sure...", This one cut me deep... |
 Feb 26 2006, 06:52 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness  Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967  |
Okay, so my gf and I have been dating for well over a year, now, and I have to admit, we don't see much of each other anymore, (she's a hs senior, and I'm a freshman in college), but I digress.
Anyway, about two weeks ago, we were playing this game over the phone. We would ask each other questions, and the other had to answer truthfully. We did this for a full three nights, and it really opened our eyes, as we learned a lot about the other.That is, until I asked my final question; the moment things went bad... The question was, "Do you consider yourself in love in this relationship?" Her answer was, "I'm not sure" I got a little angry, and I asked why she felt that way, and she said she didn't trust me fully yet, because she had a bad past with boyfriends, even though this is easily the longest relationship either one of us has been involved in. It kinda hurt that between November of 2004 and now, she didn't trust me. Now, I find myself questioning my feelings for her entirely. I wish I hadn't asked that stupid question.  This is where you come in, Cb Crowd. What should I do? |
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Mar 9 2006, 03:09 PM
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 straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 |
dont take it too personally, some people have a thing with "i love you"
some people say it to everyone, even if they arent truly in love. and some people think that you can only truly love one person... and face it, at her age, who really knows who they want to spend the rest of their life with? saying that they love someone can be a huge thing to some people... or maybe she just is having a hard time right now with the relationship. it can be really hard to continue a relationship when one person is in college and the other in highschool. make sure u try to show her how much you care. try doing something special for her or something |
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SSJ Kenshin "I'm Not Sure..." Feb 26 2006, 06:52 PM
upf147 eek...rough situation, i dont know what to tell yo... Feb 26 2006, 07:19 PM FoxBandCutie08 I have to say that I've been in that situation... Feb 26 2006, 07:43 PM _sarcastic_ don't get mad at her, i had some trust issues ... Feb 27 2006, 05:08 PM xblueradiance She's probably just a little hesitant/cautious... Feb 27 2006, 05:48 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK Let her learn to trust you a bit more. If a girl h... Feb 27 2006, 06:19 PM
Levy2k6 QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 27 2006, 5... Feb 27 2006, 06:26 PM mipadi I can certainly respect a person who takes things ... Feb 28 2006, 10:15 AM iNyCxShoRT Me and my boyfriend play that game too, we call it... Feb 28 2006, 10:27 PM angel_revelation i don't think you should really get mad at her... Feb 28 2006, 10:58 PM nightowl89 I think shes being honest with you and this was he... Mar 1 2006, 05:19 PM SSJ Kenshin QUOTE(nightowl89 @ Mar 1 2006, 5:19 PM) I... Mar 2 2006, 11:23 AM Robyn Leigh I understand that distance is difficult. I've ... Mar 1 2006, 05:41 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK ^Doing something special is always nice but don... Mar 2 2006, 04:32 PM lit0chinagirl sure, it hurts a little knowing that your girl of ... Mar 2 2006, 07:00 PM ChEeR A HOliC Xo Take your time to show her that your not like her ... Mar 3 2006, 08:00 PM digital.fragrance QUOTE(ChEeR A HOliC Xo @ Mar 3 2006, 8:00... Mar 9 2006, 03:17 PM oOjenniOo huh, thats quite funny cause i feel exactly how th... Mar 11 2006, 11:17 PM APPLEjuicex hmm..well, you guys have been dating for over a ye... Mar 12 2006, 10:13 AM |
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