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EmmalieV
post Mar 4 2006, 09:06 AM
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My boyfriend asked for a break, he said he needs to clear up what he feels for me , He told me not to be sad that its just a rest from eachother for 1 -2 max. 3 weeks.


I remember I told my ex boyfriend that same thing and I didnt mean it , im just afraid hes just saying that to not exactly break up with me ..


But do breaks really work?
 
 
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*mzkandi*
post Mar 4 2006, 09:43 AM
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It hard to say if it can really work depending on the relationship. For some couples they really do need their space away from each other and they use that time to focus on themselves and things they have going on in their life. Then for some other couples breaks can lead to an actual offical break up in the relationship. Once on break they discover how much happier they are without that person or that they have an interest in other people. But you cant know for sure what your break will be like. But yes, they can work if both people believe in keeping the relationship alive.
 
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post Mar 7 2006, 07:10 PM
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QUOTE(mzkandi @ Mar 4 2006, 9:43 AM) *
It hard to say if it can really work depending on the relationship. For some couples they really do need their space away from each other and they use that time to focus on themselves and things they have going on in their life. Then for some other couples breaks can lead to an actual offical break up in the relationship. Once on break they discover how much happier they are without that person or that they have an interest in other people. But you cant know for sure what your break will be like. But yes, they can work if both people believe in keeping the relationship alive.
^ I second that.

You can never know for sure how a break's gonna be like. It depends how you two are like when you guys have time from each other. If you guys find that you are better off without each other then it continues from there and turns into an official break up. But some people really DO need time from each other. It WILL be a break if you work it out and keep the relationship alive. (Like Kiera said)
 

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EmmalieV   breaks..   Mar 4 2006, 09:06 AM
mzkandi   It hard to say if it can really work depending on ...   Mar 4 2006, 09:43 AM
iNyCxShoRT   QUOTE(mzkandi @ Mar 4 2006, 9:43 AM) It h...   Mar 7 2006, 07:10 PM
Nicolatofu   ^ Agreed with what Kiera said. Breaks give the cou...   Mar 4 2006, 10:32 AM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   Some breaks work. I was listening to a morning sho...   Mar 4 2006, 01:23 PM
silver rain   It really depends on the relationship. If you both...   Mar 4 2006, 01:43 PM
_sarcastic_   if you guys had a strong relationship before the b...   Mar 4 2006, 02:18 PM
shes out   It depends, do you guys still talk to each other? ...   Mar 4 2006, 03:09 PM
Chii   i think you should ask him what he means by this b...   Mar 4 2006, 07:39 PM
xcaitlinx   it depends; sometimes breaks will strengthen the r...   Mar 4 2006, 11:50 PM
priyas   QUOTE(xcaitlinx @ Mar 4 2006, 8:50 PM) it...   Mar 5 2006, 12:37 AM
vanners   I agree with everybody, it usually depends on what...   Mar 5 2006, 12:31 AM
supahstah_luv   hey emmalie, i hope things work out for you just t...   Mar 5 2006, 10:41 PM
lilxl0ser   hmm, i never really understood the process of brea...   Mar 6 2006, 01:13 PM
instantmusic   hahaha, ive never been on a break in my life, i do...   Mar 6 2006, 09:34 PM
Levy2k6   me and my girlfriend broke up for 3 months... we b...   Mar 6 2006, 09:36 PM
jennypie   I recently had a 'break' with my boyfriend...   Mar 7 2006, 03:14 AM
lil_nat_cat   To prevent misunderstanding from happening, u shou...   Mar 8 2006, 06:22 AM
iNyCxShoRT   Well I know I already replied in this topic but oh...   Mar 8 2006, 08:08 PM


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