Aftermath of a long term realationship |
 Jan 23 2006, 11:56 PM
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How do you cope with breaking up in a long term realationships?
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Mar 5 2006, 06:44 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Avoid all contact. This means no talking, no going to places where you know they'll be there, don't "accidentally" bump into them...just...pretend they never existed.
Treasure the memories, but don't dwell on them. If it helps, throw away everything that they gave you...if you'd like to keep them, stash it somewhere where you know you'll never go look for it. Occupy yourself somehow...learn something new, take a new class, organize your closet...do something to occupy your time. Time will heal all wounds, but you can help to speed it up by not thinking about them. What I did to get over him was to do this: everything I caught myself thinking about him, or us together, or anythign that tied the two of us together, I would force myself to think of three different things that are totally unrelated to him. Also, if I caught myself looking for him, I would force myself to look for someone else instead...anything to do with him, I just replaced with something else. Eventually it got to the point where he didn't exist in my mind. |
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midnite Aftermath of a long term realationship Jan 23 2006, 11:56 PM
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