boyfriend is still close with his ex |
boyfriend is still close with his ex |
Jan 16 2006, 08:26 AM
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Now don't get me wrong, I trust my boyfriend with all my heart, but it still bothers me that he is still so close with his ex-girlfriend of nearly a year. He mentions her occasionally looking for a reaction of some sort from me. I don't want to mention it to him because he will think I am being completely ridiculous about it when I have no reason to be. I mean, I still am good friends with my ex and he doesn't show any sign of caring. But it's different, they have so much in common and I can't help but think he might fall for her again. What do you think I should do?
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Mar 4 2006, 11:46 PM
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i think it's normal for you to feel this way, but i don't think you should. i mean i think the thing is, is that you're comparing your relationship with your boyfriend to the relationship that him and his ex have, and i don't think you should do that. that's whats driving you crazy right there. just try not to think about it so much. i mean he has to like YOU for the qualities you have right? and you guys must ASLO have something in common, or you guys wouldn't be together because you guys wouldn't be able to stand eachother right? and don't compare yourself to her, either. you're boyfriend likes you because of you. why do you think they're not together anymore...?
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cleec boyfriend is still close with his ex Jan 16 2006, 08:26 AM
K!$$ Well it's natural to feel this way especially ... Jan 16 2006, 09:27 AM
andromeda_90 ^agreed. But if you're really being bothered b... Jan 16 2006, 09:58 AM
Levy2k6 I'm sorta in the position of your bf.. i'm... Jan 16 2006, 10:40 AM
Kristinaa TALK TALK TALK!
How is he supposed to know th... Jan 16 2006, 10:48 AM
_sarcastic_ if you're not feeling alright then why not tel... Jan 16 2006, 11:03 AM
lit0chinagirl yup, talk to the boy. see how he feels. i don... Jan 16 2006, 06:25 PM
Ilaem trust.
you don't want him thinking your jealou... Jan 16 2006, 06:32 PM
iNyCxShoRT I know how you feel; I was going through the same ... Jan 16 2006, 06:36 PM
cleec I know you all are right, the obvious choice is to... Jan 16 2006, 08:36 PM
xcaitlinx QUOTE(cleec @ Jan 16 2006, 8:36 PM)And as for... Jan 17 2006, 06:18 PM
mzbbc QUOTE(xcaitlinx @ Jan 17 2006, 7:18 PM)that s... Jan 18 2006, 02:53 PM
Zatanna Gah. I hate these type of situations. You feel l... Jan 16 2006, 08:56 PM
xnofearx I'm close to one of my exes too. It's not ... Jan 17 2006, 02:45 PM
Gerifan04 I think what you're feeling is natural and per... Jan 18 2006, 04:12 AM
mouse_3k just tell him. Its better to tell him then hide al... Jan 18 2006, 11:20 AM
SSJ Kenshin Silence is the Poison that kills relationships. Jan 18 2006, 05:29 PM
pastellove_ wow, this is exactly the situation i was/am in.
m... Mar 4 2006, 11:33 PM
priyas someones jealous..jk.
iono...their prolly just fri... Mar 5 2006, 12:39 AM
niez_cho He's just trying to make you jealous... or pro... Mar 5 2006, 04:37 AM
pinayprincess i'm close with my ex... i try not to be selfgi... Mar 5 2006, 11:21 AM![]() ![]() |