i hate drama., dont you? Options

[loljuliana]

So basically, this is how everything is.

Well, it started way back when I liked this guy. Lets call him Fred. Soon I stopped liking him, and then one of my really close friends, lets call her, Grace, starts liking him. A couple months later, I start liking him again. We were both alright with the fact that we both liked him. Soon enough, I told a friend of mine, lets call her Vicky, to tell him that I liked him, just to see what he would say.

Time went on. Me&Fred would talk often. I asked him who he liked, and he refused to tell me unless I told him who I liked. Feeling awkward, I didnt tell him.

So Vicky asks him who he liked, and he told her that he liked me.
And then later on, I was able to tell him that I liked him. He told me that he liked me too.
But then now, I cant be in a relationship with him because Grace liked him too. I wouldnt do that to her.
I felt as if I would be going behind her back by not telling her that I told him that I liked him and that he liked me back. And so I told her, and she said she didnt care anymore. Of course, I didnt believe her. But no matter how many times I asked her, she would tell me she was alright. And I told Fred what happened, and he seemed to believe that she was really okay with it.

And now, Grace spends alot of time with one of my other best friends, lets call her Julie. And now I feel as if I just had one of my best friends stolen. Cause now they are always together, and I would always just be lagging behind in the back. They would sometimes just leave me alone somewhere and go somewhere else by themselves.

So basically, I dont know what to do with Fred, and I feel abandoned by my friends.

If you were me, what would you do?

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

If I were you, I would talk to this "Grace". It's unfair of her to just think you can't be with someone you like just because she likes the same person. He doesn't like her, she should let that sink in...

BUT

I don't know, it could be that you're spending a lot of time with Fred and Grace feels she needs another friend.

Just talk.