i really just want to know.. Options

[charanjust4yu]

well let me list the ppl first

raqi - the guy i like
aman -the guy i used to like like tw yrs ago
sunil - the guy that likes me

well all three of them are good friends but i realli realli like raqi.. i have like him for like six months now.. sunil likes me and raqi always used to tell me that sunil did.. recently it got out that i like raqi and ppl started telling him.. he asked me if it was true and i said yeh.. now me and raqi talk more but im not sure if he feels the same way.. on top of that .. i told aman that i like raqi so aman told raqi that i like aman.. and i dont and aman knows that.. but that was all cleared.. and aman told me that raqi has a girlfriend but when i asked raqi.. he said he doesnt have one..


i just dont know what to do... i really need advice

thnk you

[Chii]

recently it got out that i like raqi and ppl started telling him.. he asked me if it was true and i said yeh.. now me and raqi talk more but im not sure if he feels the same way..

doesn't that mean that raqi already knows that you like him?

just be forward about it, don't keep things like this to yourself. it's better to get your feelings out in the open so you can take the next step. either having a relationship with him or having to move on.

just tell him something like, "over the past few months, i think we've really connected well as friends. i like being friends with you but i'd rather be more than friends because i like you. but if you don't like me that way back, it's okay. but whatever your answer is, i don't want to lose our great friendship."

trust me, it's better to tell him and be prepared to tell him. when i told the guy i'm seeing that i liked him i was so embarassed and nervous and freaked out i didn't think he would like me back since i was and maybe still am a bit young for him and i assumed he just wanted some from me since we were friends with benefits then. it turned out that he did like me a bit. ever since i told him, little by little things have gotten more serious. that never would have happened if i kept my feelings to myself.

this could happen to you but if it doesn't, it's just another step forward. you can look elsewhere.