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 May 21 2004, 04:36 PM
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do u think its ok for parents to hit kids?? what abt older bros n sisters
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May 21 2004, 11:31 PM
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i dont think it's right for parents to hit kids, not because of "abuse," but just because it is ineffective. Okay, it works when you're a small child, and you learn the basis of respecting your parents. i know hitting your kids isn't abusive, because your parents still love you. but i still dont agree with it past the age of 10, and definetly not past 14.
when you hit a teenager, teenagers don't like to be humbled. we are offended and feel like our pride's been taken away, so instead of reacting with respect or having learned a lesson, we react with anger. well at least me anyways. |
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princess2113 weird topic May 21 2004, 04:36 PM
Kathleen Well, for no reason at all, of course not. I think... May 21 2004, 04:41 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTEI think it's only fair to hit kids when t... May 21 2004, 04:57 PM Mireh It depends on what the kid did first in the first ... May 21 2004, 05:10 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTEIt depends on what the kid did first in the f... May 21 2004, 05:14 PM fiji_kid it all depands on how the parents beats them and w... May 21 2004, 05:30 PM DesperateXMeasures I don't think kids should be hit period. No ma... May 21 2004, 05:38 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTENo matter what they did. Hitting does not sol... May 21 2004, 05:46 PM onenonly101 no hitting them(in a rightful way because they did... May 21 2004, 06:00 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTEno hitting them(in a rightful way because the... May 21 2004, 06:04 PM onenonly101 Yeah I know about abuse. There is a bad side to ev... May 21 2004, 06:07 PM stryker76 well i think that kids these days need to be smack... May 21 2004, 06:52 PM juliar QUOTEDeserve it? What do you consider merits hitti... May 21 2004, 09:19 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTEHitting? Can you say underage sex, underage d... May 21 2004, 09:22 PM princess2113 QUOTE(juliar @ May 21 2004, 9:19 PM)Hitting? ... May 21 2004, 09:23 PM juliar Most people who are bad enough and horrible enough... May 21 2004, 09:34 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTEMost people who are bad enough and horrible e... May 21 2004, 09:38 PM princess2113 QUOTE(juliar @ May 21 2004, 9:34 PM)Most peop... May 21 2004, 09:40 PM Kathleen Yeah; realize that the leaders of today were disci... May 21 2004, 09:41 PM juliar QUOTE(EmeraldKnight @ May 21 2004, 9:38 PM)Wo... May 21 2004, 09:45 PM stryker76 I like home my dad does things.....
80 and ^..i g... May 21 2004, 10:11 PM Jiggapin0 QUOTE(Kathleen @ May 21 2004, 9:41 PM)Yeah; r... May 22 2004, 05:26 AM angel-roh well of course... to pay attention and not do bad ... May 22 2004, 06:42 AM princess2113 so if its ok...at what age is it NOT ok....n how d... May 22 2004, 09:32 AM WildGriffin QUOTEso if its ok...at what age is it NOT ok....n ... May 22 2004, 09:47 AM LiNHy POO nooo!!!! wut kind of message will ... May 22 2004, 10:37 AM onenonly101 talking without something else will do nothing.
I... May 22 2004, 12:14 PM satisfied-tom nooo its not ok. its child abuse! May 22 2004, 12:17 PM charismatic_chick oh boy... this brings back bad memories...
one d... May 26 2004, 03:02 PM ComradeRed QUOTE(Kathleen @ May 21 2004, 4:41 PM)And...i... May 26 2004, 03:35 PM chewyXD my mom beats me sometimes. but it's cuz i dese... May 26 2004, 04:04 PM Spirited Away QUOTE(WildGriffin @ May 22 2004, 9:47 AM)It... May 26 2004, 05:38 PM princess2113 i guess....:-/ May 31 2004, 04:36 PM YOWTF Yes I think it is alright. Because first, it disci... Jun 12 2004, 09:46 PM DisneyPrincessKate When I was really little and still wearing diapers... Jun 12 2004, 10:07 PM synkro QUOTE(EmeraldKnight @ May 21 2004, 6:04 PM)I ... Jun 12 2004, 10:09 PM Kathleen QUOTEhave you read any alice miller books? because... Jun 12 2004, 10:23 PM princess2113 but by hitting ur kids doesnt it give them the ide... Jun 12 2004, 10:47 PM Kathleen QUOTEbut by hitting ur kids doesnt it give them th... Jun 12 2004, 10:56 PM princess2113 QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jun 12 2004, 10:56 PM)What a... Jun 12 2004, 11:05 PM synkro QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jun 12 2004, 10:23 PM)Hmm...... Jun 12 2004, 11:16 PM onenonly101 QUOTEI don't see the point in hitting your kid... Jun 13 2004, 05:52 PM Kathleen QUOTEyeah i guess i see what ur saying but i mean ... Jun 13 2004, 07:36 PM juliar QUOTEmy older sister is worse... so no... i do not... Jun 13 2004, 07:44 PM ryfitaDF QUOTE(princess2113 @ May 21 2004, 4:36 PM)do ... Jun 14 2004, 12:32 AM synkro QUOTE(charismatic_chick @ May 26 2004, 3:02 P... Jun 14 2004, 05:22 AM iheartsimba I think a spanking now and then is okay but when i... Jun 16 2004, 08:14 AM JlIaTMK NO
not for reasons or no reasons.... its just not... Jun 16 2004, 09:06 PM shawty_redd it depends on what the kid does..but i dont think ... Jun 16 2004, 10:54 PM princess2113 QUOTE(shawty_redd @ Jun 16 2004, 10:54 PM)it ... Jun 28 2004, 09:35 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTEbut y parents n not siblings
Parents should b... Jun 29 2004, 01:11 AM princess2113 QUOTE(EmeraldKnight @ Jun 29 2004, 1:11 AM)Pa... Jun 29 2004, 03:54 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTEsiblings can get in trouble w/ the law...
How... Jun 29 2004, 04:13 PM princess2113 QUOTE(EmeraldKnight @ Jun 29 2004, 4:13 PM)Ho... Jun 29 2004, 04:18 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTEits illegal for ppl to hit u...sumething n ba... Jun 29 2004, 04:33 PM princess2113 QUOTE(EmeraldKnight @ Jun 29 2004, 4:33 PM)Oh... Jun 29 2004, 04:37 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTEhow shuld i know i saw it on a movie ::
a mov... Jun 29 2004, 04:46 PM princess2113 QUOTE(EmeraldKnight @ Jun 29 2004, 4:46 PM)a ... Jun 29 2004, 04:48 PM EmeraldKnight well can you please find an example of the law som... Jun 29 2004, 04:49 PM princess2113 QUOTE(EmeraldKnight @ Jun 29 2004, 4:49 PM)we... Jun 29 2004, 04:53 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTEum if u tell me where to then yes
That's ... Jun 29 2004, 04:57 PM Mini QUOTE(Jiggapin0 @ May 22 2004, 5:26 AM)I have... Jun 29 2004, 05:00 PM princess2113 nope sry i was just saying i saw it on the movie Jun 29 2004, 05:02 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTEtotally true. my parents are homophones, raci... Jun 29 2004, 05:03 PM princess2113 QUOTE(EmeraldKnight @ Jun 29 2004, 5:03 PM)I... Jul 1 2004, 08:18 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTEyeah thats my point i think its wrong for tha... Jul 1 2004, 08:29 PM princess2113 QUOTE(EmeraldKnight @ Jul 1 2004, 8:29 PM)Erm... Jul 1 2004, 08:31 PM Justingamemaster i think parents always tell there children whats w... Jul 1 2004, 09:03 PM MyVermilionPlague QUOTE(princess2113 @ May 21 2004, 4:36 PM)do ... Jul 3 2004, 06:40 AM Mourn4u i think parents have the rite to hit their kids bu... Jul 4 2004, 02:00 PM ComradeRed Kids should be encouraged to question authority, n... Jul 4 2004, 05:30 PM Rock_Lee It is for Brothers and Sisters. But it depends on ... Jul 4 2004, 05:35 PM tainted_angel In any case, I really dislike the idea of a child ... Jul 4 2004, 05:37 PM rnrn897 ...its ok if the parents spank them.. like without... Jul 4 2004, 07:50 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTE...its ok if the parents spank them.. like wi... Jul 4 2004, 09:36 PM angel-roh i think it's wrong for the older brother and o... Jul 5 2004, 06:11 PM EmeraldKnight QUOTEi think it's wrong for the older brother ... Jul 5 2004, 09:30 PM HiddenFaerie I don't think parents or older siblings should... Jul 7 2004, 05:19 AM sheepy NO WAY. i mean find a better way to teach kids the... Jul 9 2004, 12:18 PM Ze world is a Mask OF COURSE NOT its mean parents should teach kids i... Aug 6 2004, 05:53 PM s0emotionalx3 I think its okay for parents to discipline their o... Aug 14 2004, 03:02 AM Krunk_Muzik If they deserve it, then yes. But not exegerate. H... Aug 14 2004, 03:56 AM sikdragon spare the rod spoil the child. Aug 14 2004, 04:36 AM krazyxp hitting kids for no reason is bad, but if it's... Aug 14 2004, 05:29 PM sweetdreamsx3 No! Why do you think kids get taken away from ... Aug 14 2004, 07:31 PM sikdragon children get taken away from their parents because... Aug 15 2004, 03:41 AM neonBEATs I think abuse is bad, but not things like spanking... Aug 15 2004, 11:23 PM mouse_3k only if its for a punishment but the punishment mu... Aug 17 2004, 03:54 PM th5418 Why in my times (about 5 years ago), hitting was a... Aug 17 2004, 03:58 PM xLil SweetnezZx For parents? Yes. But only when the kid deserves... Aug 17 2004, 06:50 PM sikdragon there is no reason to keep this thread open.
SPAR... Aug 18 2004, 07:26 AM roxybabe HELL NO from my expirences HELL NO!!!... Aug 19 2004, 04:29 PM sporadic Maybe a love tap is okay, or a joking hit. Maybe a... Aug 19 2004, 06:13 PM princess2113 QUOTE(sikdragon @ Aug 18 2004, 7:26 AM)there ... Aug 23 2004, 05:46 PM slurp i dont think its right for parents to hit their ch... Aug 27 2004, 12:40 PM aud_chua it's not right to abuse the kids but a bit of ... Aug 27 2004, 01:36 PM Frankie i don't think that it right for them to ... Aug 27 2004, 06:16 PM barelyy_coherent QUOTE(EmeraldKnight @ May 21 2004, 1:57 PM)De... Sep 6 2004, 08:02 PM
F1R3B4T no, it lowers their self esteem and causes fear to... Sep 6 2004, 09:49 PM |
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