"I'm Not Sure...", This one cut me deep... Options

[SSJ Kenshin]

Okay, so my gf and I have been dating for well over a year, now, and I have to admit, we don't see much of each other anymore, (she's a hs senior, and I'm a freshman in college), but I digress.

Anyway, about two weeks ago, we were playing this game over the phone. We would ask each other questions, and the other had to answer truthfully. We did this for a full three nights, and it really opened our eyes, as we learned a lot about the other.That is, until I asked my final question; the moment things went bad...

The question was, "Do you consider yourself in love in this relationship?"

Her answer was, "I'm not sure"

I got a little angry, and I asked why she felt that way, and she said she didn't trust me fully yet, because she had a bad past with boyfriends, even though this is easily the longest relationship either one of us has been involved in. It kinda hurt that between November of 2004 and now, she didn't trust me.

Now, I find myself questioning my feelings for her entirely. I wish I hadn't asked that stupid question.

This is where you come in, Cb Crowd. What should I do?

[nightowl89]

I think shes being honest with you and this was her way of letting you know she feels a bit insecure. Where is ur college compared to her hs? ur suddenly at a completely different stage of your life and well, thats scary. Really scary, since she hasn't really had the college experience yet either. I would know, my crush went off to college and i thought he would immediately hook up with eveyr girl and meet a gf right away...crazy but thats what i honestly thought at the time. Why don't you go suprise visit her or do something that lets her know that she is really special to you?