My First Romantic Move, Moves That Realy Impress A Girl Options

[RLemmon]

Hi everyone I am new to the board here and my spelling sux so bare with me lol, but I wanted to make this a topic because well my user name says it all. I am 22 years old and out of my whole life I have been scared of rejection and could never talk to beautiful girls but I have been fealing really lonley latley because of my sister who has been with this guy for a good while now and already made me a uncle :) and I am happy about that and love kids to death and hope to have one one day but hope it's when I have a home and money available for the baby.

I am just saying for the future at the molment but yeh there is a lot to be done with babies hehe and I know from watching my sister and helping her but yeh my life sucked before all of this and mostley in school I never had a girl friend and yes I have had mabie 3 girl friends throught my 22 years of my life so yeh I am just getting to the learning stage of all the women and relationships.

I liked my sisters friends and had asked them out before and rejected as always duh! so yeh this is what led me to the whole hating rejection but I decided to get off my ass and go to the mall and I was to make one move on a girl there and I had to do it because well I had it all in me to do so and yeh when I got to the point in doing it I started to P**sy out but I relaxed and thought about all the research I have done on how women work and said to myself while looking at this girl from a distance at a sunglasses booth selling sunglasses. I was over in the center of the mall looking at her while she was helping customers but before this I should mention that I talked to her ounce making me look interested in the glasses - yeh I hate them cause I always loose them - but then I looked at her and man was she so beautiful.
I then looked over again and asked if she worked there long and she replys in no but about 2 to 3 weeks and I said oh so you are still kind of new? and she said yeh I guess and then I started to ask her about the pay and stuff like that and then asked if she lived around here and she said she lived in kentuky of louisville and I was like well you have quite a drive then don't you from clarcksvill, indiana and she said yeh but I love the jobs here and I was like oh you have another one here and she said yeh I work at the shoe buisness over there on the corner and I said oh I see.

Might I remind you she never ask me anything yet so I then started to shy away P**sy me yeh I know so I told her I would be back and she said okay and then kind of looked as if I only wanted to get to know her hehe I guess it happens a lot? but I was at the part where I was in the center of the mall thing looking at her but yeh so I got my pump back and said I'm doing this no matter what so I walk up to her and said "When I see Somthing I like I try To Get It" and then I said I had a question about the sunglasses lol I wuld like to buy the yellow mirrored ones and she said okay shure and that will be 12 dollars and I gave her my card and said credit please and signed the paper and then I told her I would like to introduce myself to you and then said I'm rocky and held out my hand and then she said I'm Jessica and as she went to shake my hand I instead took her hand and raised it to my face and kissed her hand and she blushed and then shyed away and before I knew it I was nerus as crap and asking if she had anything to do this friday I would like to take her to the movies or somthing and I looked her in the eyes as I was saying this and she then said "IM SORRY I HAVE A BOYFRIEND" -I dread them damn words- but yeh.

I then said thats okay and that I was single and just wanted to ask but that I would see her later and talk again soon and she said okay and sorry again but here is what I know happened to her after this well I think I do lol.

Her boyfriend if there is nothing that she likes coming from him she will be looking for some one but don't think about it at the molment until some one like me comes up and does a move that she never ever expected and girls/women love that cause it's all romance and there fanacy to be treated like a princess and that is what I gave her from the kiss on the hand because 1 no one does that no more and 2 it's icing on the cake to her so she will go and tell all her girl friends about it and then they will want to see this mystery guy one day and of course the boyfriend if at all is a nice guy will have to depend if I will be able to complete my goal to get a girl on my own and in the process steal her if I can.

I am a guy that belives in romance all the way and I know what it feels like to have it and I know what it means now to me that it's not there in my life no more and I took that for granted at times and won't ever take it for granted again. I am now just learning to use it on any one that I must try to date and get to like me and yes as always I alwayes opened the doors for a ladie no matter if it's car or truck and I will do this all the time.

My next mission is to wait a couple weeks and go back there and mabie ask her if she would like a kiss and no matter if she says no or yes I am going to ask her to hold her hand out lol, and she will think I am going to do it again and I will then give her a few hershey kisses to put in her hand and she will probably laugh and say thank you I hope and then I will ask about her day and so on and just try to talk to her and hope that with some moves I can give her what her boyfriend probably isn't and she will mabie fall for my moves instead :).

By Rocxy Lemmon
Charlestown, Indiana

I would love to hear comments on my actions from the ladies and hope this is all good an dnd that she will think about what I did and charish that molment and wander if she will see me again and hope to mabie?

I think she will and will probably smile when she does lol, and of course I am a bit less shy now knowing she did not smack me for that lol, and I will proabably thank her for not smaking me or I may just keep quiet about it and let her think if thats the way I was brought up or if I am from another country that does that? I duno but I know it made me feel so good after I did it cause I felt and heard my heart beat and my hearing started to fade and my chest was being like pressed in and I was feeling it get warm and I loved it lol.

Call me crazy but hey I am what I am and that's what makes me ME!

[Chii]

umm...if you're such a romantic then why do you hit on girls you don't even know?

usually when guys hit on girls they see at the mall or on the street that they usually just want some and/or like them just because of the way they look, which is quite shallow, not romantic.

okay i'll admit it, i read the first half then skimmed the rest but if she has a "boyfriend" then maybe you should back off. she must have said that for a reason.


i don't really like how you read up on what girls like and just play the romantic part because "that's what girls like." it should be real, not something you use as strategy...

[RLemmon]

umm...if you're such a romantic then why do you hit on girls you don't even know?

usually when guys hit on girls they see at the mall or on the street that they usually just want some and/or like them just because of the way they look, which is quite shallow, not romantic.

okay i'll admit it, i read the first half then skimmed the rest but if she has a "boyfriend" then maybe you should back off. she must have said that for a reason.
i don't really like how you read up on what girls like and just play the romantic part because "that's what girls like." it should be real, not something you use as strategy...

Hi Chii you should read the entire post when you get time but yeh I understand where your coming from but also I have standards too and there probably a bit too high for me?

Im sorry to have put steal because what I am trying to say is that if her boyfriend is not being the romantc type guy she won't want that because well girls have this thing in side them that is hidden and usually subcasusalley or however you spell that word lol they don't think about it but they act on feelings and like I said in the bottom half of my post I am romantic and like mipadi said just be me and thats me and the only reason I did research on it is because you women are so descreat about this stuff and hey god gave you the flaw on purpose lol, but see some guys don't know about it like me and some know about it and know that it works and so they do share it with others.

Now you also said that girls at malls and stuff that have romantic guys that hit on them usually know that there just wanting to get some lol, lol, I am so sorry but since I am a vergin and no sex has ever been my objective with any girl I don't know why you would asume that I am trying to get that lol and besides I doubt any girl gets romance from a lot of guys?, now there are guys that use this romantc flaw that you have to just get some from you but I am not like this but hey if there is a flaw in somthing most people to exploit it and use it for bad so I guess thats life? but in my case thats not my life.

okay I did ask my sister after doing this and she told me it was romantic and that she could not beleive I was brave enough to do it lo, but yeh and she liked the idea cause it was origiginal and never used and she thought I did good doing it that way.

Also Chii just cause she said she has a boyfriend don't mean anything cause women test all the time and if you don't think you do but mabie you don't think about it at the time because subcasisally you don't see it happening. I only want her to come to me on her own and if she does thats great and if not then hey thats good too.

ALso for the guy that said that stealing thing about if I had a girl and how I would feel about it if it were me but this you should try and remember if you keep her on her toes then you have no worries about her leaving you duh! lol.

Welp! I just came here to share my thoughts and feelings and hoped not to get flames and no matter if you she has a bf I still must try because if a women sees you being persistant she will desirabley want to know why? and will eventually take intrest in the person giving her the romantic moves and I spent a lot of my time reading on the things that work so I know now and it makes so much more sence then I ever imagined and by the was chii I wanted you to know that your secret if safe with me lol, it might be mean but im shy too so you can't blame me for being desprate to try anything that may work? and I am only trying things till I overcome my shyness but im saying too much now and getting cramped fingers so talk at ya later and please continue posting please.

Regards, Rocxy Lemmon