Under age sex wrong? Options

[GothpunkGClover]

give me youre thoughts.

[AirgeadDolphin]

Ok well my thouhgt first of all i was probably raied with very different spirituality and socil values than most of you i was raied with one of my most important values to be enjoyments, of good food, drink, friends, jokes (well not always GOOD jokes), are litirature and yes SEX. I dont see sex as bad or wrong except in the cases of a)rape or any other non-consensual activity. b) sexual activity before consent can be givin (obvously sex with a 2 your old is wrong) I do agree that as long as one is mature enough that sex is perfactably acceptable so how do you know if you mature enough it has NOTHING to do with age
1 can you comfortably name and talk about body parts useing anatomical correct terms. If it makes you to imbarred to say the word penis you not mature enough for sex Can you honostly and comfortably talk about any past sexual experences with you partner, if you partner or yourself has had unprotected sex with someone. Can you discuss and make perfectly clear your veiws on what form of contraceptive/protecting will be used. Can you openly communicate you wants, needs, fantacys etc. with your partner? Have you thought and desided together what you will do in the case of pregnency. Are you comefortably going out to buy condoms are you confident enough to talk to a doctor about getting a pregnency test if nessisary Obvously some of these questions would not be acceptable for certen relationships but that's another topic well that's my view I also have a few comments on past posts

well, they dont call it 'under age' sex for nothing instandmusic For me the term "underage is blatent ageism This term is used in almost no areas except dealing with sex alachol or tabacco. DO you say someone who isn't 25 is "undersge" to rent a car is an exceptionally bright 12 year old "underage" to take a college calss ther eis an age limit for running for Presedent of the US (I beleve 35) is someone younger than that "underage" for becomeing presedent The age of consent is something created in the law that as far as i know have never been used except in cases of statutory rape (again another topic but i think the whole idea is stuped) and sence when do all laws mean something do a web search for "dumb laws" and see some of the stuff that is still actual law everything from not being allowed to drive a black car on sundays to not being allowed to leave you pet elephant on main street if there not on a leash.

OK done iwth the rant now it's just a subject i work with a lot. For years i worked doing counsiling for people consitering abortion (and i would estemate that over half the people i talked with who were the mosted confused and immature on the subject were over 18 and doing sex ed classes (but defenetly not the kind found in you local school). BTW i dont care what the hell you think about this post, feel free to say whatever you wish about me.