"I'm Not Sure...", This one cut me deep... |
 Feb 26 2006, 06:52 PM
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Okay, so my gf and I have been dating for well over a year, now, and I have to admit, we don't see much of each other anymore, (she's a hs senior, and I'm a freshman in college), but I digress.
Anyway, about two weeks ago, we were playing this game over the phone. We would ask each other questions, and the other had to answer truthfully. We did this for a full three nights, and it really opened our eyes, as we learned a lot about the other.That is, until I asked my final question; the moment things went bad... The question was, "Do you consider yourself in love in this relationship?" Her answer was, "I'm not sure" I got a little angry, and I asked why she felt that way, and she said she didn't trust me fully yet, because she had a bad past with boyfriends, even though this is easily the longest relationship either one of us has been involved in. It kinda hurt that between November of 2004 and now, she didn't trust me. Now, I find myself questioning my feelings for her entirely. I wish I hadn't asked that stupid question.  This is where you come in, Cb Crowd. What should I do? |
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Feb 27 2006, 06:19 PM
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Let her learn to trust you a bit more. If a girl had a bad history with boyfriends, then let her progress. If you hurry her it might just drive her away.
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Feb 27 2006, 06:26 PM
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QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 27 2006, 5:19 PM)  Let her learn to trust you a bit more. If a girl had a bad history with boyfriends, then let her progress. If you hurry her it might just drive her away. i'd go with basically that.. just let her go through it but just keep doing what you can and be like.. that great boyfriend. even tho it's hard for you two... me and my gf just got back together.. we were together for 6 months and i guess i sorta messsed up.. but we got back together now...well we broke up for 3 months, and then she went out with some younger guy than her and got dumped like 2-3 days later so yeah.. i think she learned a lesson or something but yeah.. now i'm just really trying to be her better boyfriend and i'm making sure she's trusting me and stuff... i don't want to go through a stupid breakup again... (we broke up originally because she didn't want a boyfriend and focus on "school" or... i got boring.. lol) |
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SSJ Kenshin "I'm Not Sure..." Feb 26 2006, 06:52 PM
upf147 eek...rough situation, i dont know what to tell yo... Feb 26 2006, 07:19 PM FoxBandCutie08 I have to say that I've been in that situation... Feb 26 2006, 07:43 PM _sarcastic_ don't get mad at her, i had some trust issues ... Feb 27 2006, 05:08 PM xblueradiance She's probably just a little hesitant/cautious... Feb 27 2006, 05:48 PM mipadi I can certainly respect a person who takes things ... Feb 28 2006, 10:15 AM iNyCxShoRT Me and my boyfriend play that game too, we call it... Feb 28 2006, 10:27 PM angel_revelation i don't think you should really get mad at her... Feb 28 2006, 10:58 PM nightowl89 I think shes being honest with you and this was he... Mar 1 2006, 05:19 PM
SSJ Kenshin QUOTE(nightowl89 @ Mar 1 2006, 5:19 PM) I... Mar 2 2006, 11:23 AM Robyn Leigh I understand that distance is difficult. I've ... Mar 1 2006, 05:41 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK ^Doing something special is always nice but don... Mar 2 2006, 04:32 PM lit0chinagirl sure, it hurts a little knowing that your girl of ... Mar 2 2006, 07:00 PM ChEeR A HOliC Xo Take your time to show her that your not like her ... Mar 3 2006, 08:00 PM digital.fragrance QUOTE(ChEeR A HOliC Xo @ Mar 3 2006, 8:00... Mar 9 2006, 03:17 PM ursedonah dont take it too personally, some people have a th... Mar 9 2006, 03:09 PM oOjenniOo huh, thats quite funny cause i feel exactly how th... Mar 11 2006, 11:17 PM APPLEjuicex hmm..well, you guys have been dating for over a ye... Mar 12 2006, 10:13 AM |
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