"I'm Not Sure...", This one cut me deep... Options

[SSJ Kenshin]

Okay, so my gf and I have been dating for well over a year, now, and I have to admit, we don't see much of each other anymore, (she's a hs senior, and I'm a freshman in college), but I digress.

Anyway, about two weeks ago, we were playing this game over the phone. We would ask each other questions, and the other had to answer truthfully. We did this for a full three nights, and it really opened our eyes, as we learned a lot about the other.That is, until I asked my final question; the moment things went bad...

The question was, "Do you consider yourself in love in this relationship?"

Her answer was, "I'm not sure"

I got a little angry, and I asked why she felt that way, and she said she didn't trust me fully yet, because she had a bad past with boyfriends, even though this is easily the longest relationship either one of us has been involved in. It kinda hurt that between November of 2004 and now, she didn't trust me.

Now, I find myself questioning my feelings for her entirely. I wish I hadn't asked that stupid question.

This is where you come in, Cb Crowd. What should I do?

[FoxBandCutie08]

I have to say that I've been in that situation too, where I was aprehensive to trust my boyfriend. It wasn't over such a long period of time though. Have you ever done anything to break her trust, or give her a reason not to trust you? If you haven't, then I believe she is not realizing how good of a relationship you two have. It might be the fact that you guys don't see each other, and it's a lot easier to do things and get away with them when you're not around each other. Just talk to her, getting mad at her won't make her confide in you or solve the problem. Talk reasonably with her about it and find out why she feels that she cannot trust you, since obviously you've proven to be a better boyfriend than her past ones.