Oh Lord, more teen drama Options

[R i O T *]

Our favorite topic, I know, right . Anyway, there's this guy named David. I don't like him (except for as a friend), but he really likes me. It's pretty lame, but we always go to this Thursday night church service together and afterwards, his mom drives me home. Well tonight on the ride home, his sister and her friends tried getting me to go out with him, but I just want to stay friends and all. After a while, his sister and her friends started to leave us alone and we just sat there and talked. A little bit later, his mom made a sharp turn and I leaned into him and stayed there because he was confortable . And then later we started holing hands, which isn't really too bad, but now I'm worried that he might think we're going out because I've been leading him on. Any ideas on how I should tell him that I only like his as a friend without being too mean or cliche? Blah, so confusing

[Chii]

did he know that you only like him as a friend prior to that incident? if he didn't know then you really need to do some damage control and tell him as soon as possible so he won't get the wrong idea.

if he did know then it's not as dire but you should still tell him.


that's really pathetic that he had to recruit his sister and her friends to try to convince you to go out with him. i hate it when people do things like that, it's cheesy and not sweet or cute or whatever.

[*mipadi*]

I guess just let him know unequivocally that you're not interested. But if you knew he liked you, why would you lead him on and flirt with him by laying on him and holding hands with him? That seems like a bad idea to me.



How do you know he recruited them? Often times, people, especially sisters or good friends, take their own initiative in this area.

that's really pathetic that he had to recruit his sister and her friends to try to convince you to go out with him. i hate it when people do things like that, it's cheesy and not sweet or cute or whatever.