what age would you like to get married Options

[*mzkandi*]

What age would you like to be married by. Or if you already are what age did u get married? I would like to be married by age 25 or 26...i am 20 now...hmm not to long to go....

[benedictkenny]

When the world is so large, and being a person who wants to experience, see, and know all that I can, I hardly understand why people would want to "Settle" so badly.

Please explain.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

When the world is so large, and being a person who wants to experience, see, and know all that I can, I hardly understand why people would want to "Settle" so badly.

Please explain.

It's just part of life. You're forgetting that people have different opinions. Besides, not everyone wants to see the world for what it is. They're content with the place the world has given them. Marriage is an essential part of life that gives you lots of experience.

One more thing,

getting married doesn't mean "no freedom". My sister and her husband travel around the world basically every week! Once my sister had a daughter, they would go on vacations during school breaks and visit more sights to give them more experience.

[benedictkenny]

It's just part of life. You're forgetting that people have different opinions. Besides, not everyone wants to see the world for what it is. They're content with the place the world has given them. Marriage is an essential part of life that gives you lots of experience.

One more thing,

getting married doesn't mean "no freedom". My sister and her husband travel around the world basically every week! Once my sister had a daughter, they would go on vacations during school breaks and visit more sights to give them more experience.

It's not so much no freedom, but...argh, I've explained what I meant in the other post, and we're just obviously of two VERY different mindsets. I get where you're coming from, but I doubt I can get through to you about where I'M coming from.


Yeah, but watch how often he goes places by himself anymore.
Also, watch how often he goes out with other women (and don't tell me "He has a wife, so he never wants to go anywhere with any other woman ever!")
Point three, that's just one couple. On average, marraige after the first few years involves getting a home and a job, and existing in the city or suburbs 95% of the time. Maybe you take 1 or 2 vacations a year, but it's fooling yourself, because you just have to go back to a sh*t job and a person you have to stay with "for better or worse."
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"Besides, not everyone wants to see the world for what it is."

You realize that this is quite a terrible statement. It's saying you don't want knowledge or truth that is available to you.
I'm not saying it's untrue, though, and it's why Bush was elected twice, and there's nothing but BAD, UNIMAGINITIVE rock music, FAKE, MISREPRESENTATIVE hip hop, and BRAINLESS pop music on television...and that's just describing half an hour of the bad things that come on MTV2 at any time. I hope you aren't saying that that stament applies to yourself.

You DO realize that the words "anime otakus" really is't possible (why do you have an S at the end of nihongo), and that no woman like that would actually hang around an "anime otaku". Just outta curiousity, are you an old guy, or a young girl.