Polygamy?, Or is it Life? Options

[benedictkenny]

I've come to a point where I basically haven't liked any girl genuinely in a long time, and I haven't been in an official relationship in almost a year.

I can look at people and go, she's attractive, and I'd wonder what she kisses like, or how her skin feels.
I meet other girls who I'd just liked to talk to, but am not interested in physically. Like, I'd want certain aspects of a relationship.
Thinking it over last year, I didn't see why people go for "relationships." It makes no sense that you can only get something or be close to one person by excluding yourself from the rest of the world, or pretending you don't have active interest in other people, curiosity of what other people are like, and human desire, which is natural and foolish to deny in the name of "standards and society". It's a large world, with many people. Why not experience it? If I have curiousity, and some bit of information that is unfilled, that I'd like to fill, logically, I will try to fill it.

See...people associate restricting themselves from human nature with "class"
ehh, restricting is a bad word to use, but still, surprisingly, most girls are all about class.
Many of them are so concerned with "looking good in society" and "restricting themselves." They would NEVER do anything that makes it seems like they have NO CLASS, when any real person can see this, and can tell that instead, it just means that they have no self-confidence or value of their decision making ability, and ability to trust their own desires and feelings.



It's like, when you enter "relationship" territory, you're supposed to restrict yourself from achieving a closeness with other people of the opposite sex because one person is insecure, or for jealousy...and in the name of a decency...a decency which is just a ridiculous restraint created by "society".
I see why people'd subscribe to it, but it's not...great to me. Not Natural. There's more, but I talk too much for now.

Thoughts?

[Chii]

when you get into a relationship, you're not really closing the whole world out. you can still look around, most people should realize that they're just in a relationship, they're not dead. you don't know who "the one" is if there is such thing so it would make sense to keep your eyes open.

but people restrict themselves, not only because of society, but because they feel obligated to their significant other and they feel that they need to be loyal.

it sounds logical that you should let things flow naturally by fluttering to whoever attracts you and will fulfill your needs but if that's really how life was, how would it feel? you're in love with a girl and she loves you too but then one day she meets someone else, falls in love with him, and runs off with him or she keeps you both because she can't decide. what would she do? keep it all a secret and let it slowly eat away at her conscience? keep both relationships going while hurting you and the other guy? break up with one and hurt herself and the person she left? or break up with the both of you which would leave everyone hurt?

that is a very difficult situation so people probably practice monogamy to avoid it. or maybe people practice monogamy because they believe that if they're being unfaithful, their significant other will be faithful too, so they sacrifice chances to be with other people for security.

i'm not sure what i'm saying anymore, and i'm getting a little confused at what i'm trying to say and what i said so i'll just leave it at that.

by the way, happy 22nd birthday

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

but people restrict themselves, not only because of society, but because they feel obligated to their significant other and they feel that they need to be loyal.
happy 22nd birthday

exactly,

besides, going into a relationship means you just don't have any interest in other people. You just want to focus on that one person...