depression, ...what to do? |
 Feb 15 2006, 07:38 PM
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my friend is goin thru some rough times and i don't know what to do! i tell her i'm here whenever she needs to talk and no matter how bad everything gets she always has family and friends and everything else. what can i do to maybe lift her spirits a little?
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Feb 22 2006, 02:12 AM
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 "lal! laugh a little!" Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 364,863 |
♥♥♥ You love her like a sister, right? Good answer. If you love her, in the most sensitive way you can, say, "Ya know, I love ya like a sister. You need to know that (insert her name here). If you want me to, I'll talk to you now. If you don't, I'll leave. Just tell me what you want, and your wish is my command!!!!" (if she says anything besides leave, say this:) "Well! Okay then sis! I'll do that for ya on one condition - SMILE! Smile like you've never smiled before!" (keep urging her to make a bigger smile, and only stop until a couple seconds after she looks like she knows she looks like the silliest thing in the world, so you guys start cracking up) If you love her, you'll help her. Change the above convo to fit your relationship with her ;) Oh yeah, whatever you do, do NOT bring up past memories, it might make her think about what made her depressed. And you do NOT want that, iight? ♥♥♥ Oh yeah. If she asks you to leave, give her a nice, long, tight (but not bear hug tight, only give her a bear hug if she starts smiling and/or laughing) hug. If she backs off during the middle of the hug, keep hugging her but a little bit gentler... I love hugs. You love hugs. Your friend loves hugs. Hugs rock. 
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blonde@<3 depression Feb 15 2006, 07:38 PM
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tell her what a great friend she is.
... Feb 17 2006, 07:35 PM EyeOfTheTiger5 When my friends are feelin down, what I do is (in ... Feb 18 2006, 01:37 AM swtcherriipie wrong section. Feb 18 2006, 04:49 PM sheepy show her some geniune concern, not like as someone... Feb 18 2006, 10:32 PM skp86 put yourself in her shoes- how would you feel? wou... Feb 18 2006, 10:44 PM swtcherriipie Id take her out like to the fair!!! Or... Feb 18 2006, 11:30 PM FoxBandCutie08 Whenever she looks down, take her out or invite he... Feb 19 2006, 03:34 PM yo pusha whip it out Feb 22 2006, 01:19 AM ichiban Invite her over with a bunch of good friends to wa... Feb 22 2006, 11:02 PM ecargnmyst take her out to do something fun to get her mind o... Feb 24 2006, 01:23 AM iNyCxShoRT I'd say; don't let her stay inside her hou... Feb 24 2006, 08:13 PM |
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