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 Feb 20 2006, 07:08 PM
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 Oh Goddamnit.  Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,884  |
Okay so I like this guy and this guy likes me. We don't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend however because we both change when in a relationship (we've gone out before) and he doesn't want to hurt me. We both want to kiss eachother but we keep chickening out. Well last night me and a bunch of friends (and him) were hanging out in my basement in the dark and I'd lay down and he'd be right there and he'd almost kiss me but I'd turn my head or make up some lame excuse. I want to kiss him but I just keep chickening out. Anyone have any advice for me?
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Feb 20 2006, 10:36 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i think you need to sort out your feelings and figure out what you really want. you're probably turning away because you don't want to let the relationship get any deeper because you're afraid that it will mess up again.
it sounds like you kind of do want more but you're just afraid to take the risk again. or maybe you just want the friends with benefits thing because that's the only "problem free" solution where you can have him but not "change" because it's not a real relationship. |
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Feb 21 2006, 12:47 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(Chii @ Feb 20 2006, 7:36 PM)  i think you need to sort out your feelings and figure out what you really want. you're probably turning away because you don't want to let the relationship get any deeper because you're afraid that it will mess up again. it sounds like you kind of do want more but you're just afraid to take the risk again. or maybe you just want the friends with benefits thing because that's the only "problem free" solution where you can have him but not "change" because it's not a real relationship. Agreed. If you 'change' when you're in the relationship, then its something you should work out with him. If you want a friend with benefits, I suggest you dont, but then just swallow your fears and kiss him, |
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misskentucky Chicken Feb 20 2006, 07:08 PM
Maestro When he leans in to kiss you, don't think up a... Feb 20 2006, 08:32 PM pinayprincess well you know your afraid; but i guess you have to... Feb 20 2006, 10:14 PM
Zatanna Don't think, just KISS! Feb 21 2006, 12:56 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK Why won't you guys just be friends with benefi... Feb 21 2006, 04:02 PM _sarcastic_ if you like each other, you like each other...don... Feb 21 2006, 04:27 PM Jayembe just go and tell ur self to DO IT! say what ha... Feb 23 2006, 08:52 PM
Shortiiex don't think of negative stuff...when he does..... Feb 23 2006, 10:47 PM |
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