Invasion of privacy |
Invasion of privacy |
| *salcha* |
Feb 18 2006, 11:46 PM
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My dad had decided to start monitoring my IM's with a program from his own computer. I had absolutely no idea about this until he closed my internet connection and got mad at me for talking inappropriately (and I wasn't....at all). Not only did this make ME mad, this made him mad as well. We had a heated argument, him saying that he had all the rights to check all my IM's, and I said that this was an invasion of privacy. Now I agree myself on parents having the right to know what their child is doing, but this is going waaaay too far. He slapped me and told me that from now on, he will ALSO be checking my emails and possibly deleting it
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Feb 20 2006, 01:01 AM
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you father slapped you for defending your right to privacy? i know he might have the best of intentions for you but that's going too far. i would simply not talk to my father if he did that. he's snooping around, he can find out for himself. and i honestly believe, no matter who it is, if a person doesn't trust you, you shouldn't trust them.
ask your father what exactly you did wrong. tell him that he isn't allowed to see your conversations even if he's your father. let him know that you respect his authority as a parent but he has to respect you in return to receive that respect. don't raise your voice at him or curse. talk calmly. if that doesn't work, give him (and your mother who seems to support this) a taste of their own medicine. butt into their lives and invade their privacy. like read their mail and rifle through their drawers/computer. i know that sounds horrible but that's my character. |
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| *salcha* |
Feb 20 2006, 01:06 AM
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if that doesn't work, give him (and your mother who seems to support this) a taste of their own medicine. butt into their lives and invade their privacy. like read their mail and rifle through their drawers/computer. i know that sounds horrible but that's my character. i already do that, and they dont seem to mind |
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salcha Invasion of privacy Feb 18 2006, 11:46 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK Wow. Parents DO have the right and crap but JESUS.... Feb 18 2006, 11:49 PM
Funkadelic.Kiss Couldn't you try & delete the program or y... Feb 18 2006, 11:53 PM
salcha I don't know...I think the new AIM Triton (I h... Feb 18 2006, 11:54 PM
iNyCxShoRT QUOTE(salcha @ Feb 18 2006, 11:54 PM) I d... Feb 20 2006, 06:14 PM
tic tac. Make a new sn? Maybe that would work. Get back the... Feb 18 2006, 11:59 PM
Chii oh my god! that is ridiculous. it's not li... Feb 19 2006, 12:00 AM
salcha QUOTE(Chii @ Feb 19 2006, 12:00 AM) tap y... Feb 19 2006, 12:02 AM
BitterSweetness ouch man. i know how you feel. i got in so much tr... Feb 19 2006, 01:46 PM
FoxBandCutie08 Wow. He doesn't sound like the most trusting p... Feb 19 2006, 02:59 PM
salcha QUOTE(FoxBandCutie08 @ Feb 19 2006, 2:59 ... Feb 19 2006, 06:20 PM
skp86 That is crazy!!!
You need to try to un... Feb 19 2006, 04:28 PM
Levy2k6 go back to the regular AIM then if you think the n... Feb 19 2006, 04:43 PM
swtcherriipie I remember my mom doing that to my sister when she... Feb 19 2006, 06:50 PM
chaneun you can always get GAIM.. or trillian. Feb 20 2006, 12:10 PM
pinayprincess thats messed up; i dont blame you for flipping out Feb 20 2006, 12:42 PM
annabel_x my dad is just like yours!
everything that i ... Feb 20 2006, 06:11 PM
Jayembe WOW im glad my DAd(i dont relly no him as my dad b... Feb 20 2006, 09:39 PM![]() ![]() |