depression, ...what to do? |
 Feb 15 2006, 07:38 PM
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my friend is goin thru some rough times and i don't know what to do! i tell her i'm here whenever she needs to talk and no matter how bad everything gets she always has family and friends and everything else. what can i do to maybe lift her spirits a little?
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Feb 18 2006, 10:44 PM
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put yourself in her shoes- how would you feel? would you feel smothered if you were constantly hugged, complimented, and etc? Tell her you don't want anything bad to happen to her and you don't want to lose her, and that the best thing to do is go to councelling(sp?) tell her she's not alone-that you're going through this together. And tell her not to do anything stupid b/c if she's gone you'll really miss her. Try you're hardest to cheer her up. Find out her problems-is she constantly fighting w/ her parents, is she doing bad in school, is she frustrated with her social life? You need to identify the problem.
I hope this helps you and your friend |
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|_ittle flying cow QUOTE(ficklenesswhatever @ Feb 15 2006, 7... Feb 18 2006, 11:32 PM mipadi Is she really depressed, or just sad? There is a d... Feb 15 2006, 11:41 PM o0olaalaa tickle her! Feb 16 2006, 07:49 PM Paradox of Life ^ You know, normally I would be like "Wow, th... Feb 17 2006, 06:10 PM lilxl0ser lols tell her that life can only get better from h... Feb 17 2006, 06:53 PM _sarcastic_ take her out and have some fun Feb 17 2006, 07:32 PM mzislandpinay maybe you could take her out on a "you and he... Feb 17 2006, 07:34 PM annabel_x talk to her.
tell her what a great friend she is.
... Feb 17 2006, 07:35 PM EyeOfTheTiger5 When my friends are feelin down, what I do is (in ... Feb 18 2006, 01:37 AM swtcherriipie wrong section. Feb 18 2006, 04:49 PM sheepy show her some geniune concern, not like as someone... Feb 18 2006, 10:32 PM swtcherriipie Id take her out like to the fair!!! Or... Feb 18 2006, 11:30 PM FoxBandCutie08 Whenever she looks down, take her out or invite he... Feb 19 2006, 03:34 PM yo pusha whip it out Feb 22 2006, 01:19 AM xxxSiERRAxxx ♥♥♥
You love her like a sister, ... Feb 22 2006, 02:12 AM ichiban Invite her over with a bunch of good friends to wa... Feb 22 2006, 11:02 PM ecargnmyst take her out to do something fun to get her mind o... Feb 24 2006, 01:23 AM iNyCxShoRT I'd say; don't let her stay inside her hou... Feb 24 2006, 08:13 PM |
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