WTF phone calls!?!, :/ Options

[Retrogressive]

So I get this phone call from this girl who I used to be uber-close with. I stopped talking to her almost three months ago. She's been texting me and poking around here trying to see what I'm up to. I stopped talking to her because she just uses me as a personal therapist and I was tired of hearing all of her crap and then when I would tell her something she'd blow me off. So she had this huge issue with me when I stopped taking her calls every day (I'd take her calls once every three days). She became really upset and so I brought up the fact that she didn't call me for three months when she went to Europe, she became really silent when I brought that up. So after I've nearly forgotten with her she randomly calls me at 10:51 PM and acts completely normal (as if I've been in close contact with her). And she says that if I'm not busy she has lots of stories. I tell her I am. And she acts all hurt and I hang up. I don't really understand why she's so obsessed with me if she thinks I'm not good enough for her and that she could have millions of friends like me. The thing is that I've established that our relationship was over. But there we go, my WTF phone call.

Have you ever had a random phone call from someone and afterwards was like, "WTF?!"

[Just_Dream]

I know how you feel.. when people only call you to talk about their problems. Actually, now it's not as bad anymore, but yea that happened to me before. Actually, the brushing-off thing worked... People change, and I'm glad my friend isn't like that anymore.

But anyways.. wow your "acquaintance" is so self-absorbed. She feels hurt? WTH... She doesn't give you a chance to express how you feel about how she treats you and then she gets emotional? She's definitely one of those blabbermouths that have to tell people every detail about their lives in order to get attention. She's just using you. Just tell her straight out -- you are sick and tired of hearing about her stories. It's better to end it that way because she'll probably get more and more annoying. Or better yet, change you number. haha :P

[Retrogressive]

I know how you feel.. when people only call you to talk about their problems. Actually, now it's not as bad anymore, but yea that happened to me before. Actually, the brushing-off thing worked... People change, and I'm glad my friend isn't like that anymore.

But anyways.. wow your "acquaintance" is so self-absorbed. She feels hurt? WTH... She doesn't give you a chance to express how you feel about how she treats you and then she gets emotional? She's definitely one of those blabbermouths that have to tell people every detail about their lives in order to get attention. She's just using you. Just tell her straight out -- you are sick and tired of hearing about her stories. It's better to end it that way because she'll probably get more and more annoying. Or better yet, change you number. haha :P

Wow, thanks You know, it's complicated because I seriously cared for her for almost 3 years. I mean it just hurts when you find out that your feelings aren't returned and that you're just being used. I got so used to being a giver that I just, I'm just not myself around anyone anymore. It astonishes me, everyday when I go meet some friends or extensions of the family they tell me how distant I am. And I don't think I'm any different than before until I sit back and look. I'm completely different. Stupid phone. Stupid everything. *becomes emo*