"You're being spoiled... just give him a chance" Options

[angelrevelation]

(read below v) has anyone else felt like this? what do you think the reason was? (for not liking someone so deserving) because 'no connection' seems like a lame excuse...

one of my guy friends likes me. he has for a while now... but it's really awkward because he's like always trying to impress me, and it just comes off as annoying. we aren't close at all. i think the only reason he became my 'friend' was because he liked me.

now, everyone knows he likes me, and like my friends are trying to help him out and are sort of pressuring me to 'accept' him. i guess the idea of me finally getting a boyfriend is cute. and yes, i'm supposedly being spoiled and vain. but i'm not. it's not about looks. i've recently liked a guy 'less good looking' then him (everyone else thinks so... it doesn't matter!). i just don't like him because there's no connection.

but he's such a nice guy... and it makes me really sad that i cant like him back. i just get really irritated around him, no matter how hard i try to see the motives behind it.

[dreamii]

i know how that feels, some of my guy friends used to like me, and after they tell me about it...i just get irritated and stop talking to them...i know its mean but i didnt know what to do and stuff...

about what you're about to say to him, he might think he might get a chance with you. ("i'm still willing to give you a chance, but i don't want to do anything right now. we should just take things slowly.") its like you're telling him to wait for you..however the part before was perfect in my opinion. if you dont think you are going to have a chance with him, cut the last part =p