Why?, do guys have to ask girls out etc. |
 Feb 12 2006, 02:55 PM
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Okay why do guys allways have to ask the girl out. When i ask my girlfriends this she allways say's
"it's not right for a girl to ask a boy out". And the it gets more complicated when girls play hard to get! So any girls out there wanna answer this Q. 
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Feb 13 2006, 08:50 PM
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Most girls are insecure. Even the most confident, independent looking girl wants to be sure that she means something important to a guy. And when he initiates the relationship, she knows that she means something to him. Thats why we're so happy when you call: because we know you cared enough to.
 But of course its totally fine for girls to go for it. guys if a girl is really going the extra mile for you, at least give her a second look, cuz it takes a lot of guts. 
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Feb 16 2006, 07:15 AM
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QUOTE(nightowl89 @ Feb 14 2006, 9:50 AM) Most girls are insecure. Even the most confident, independent looking girl wants to be sure that she means something important to a guy. And when he initiates the relationship, she knows that she means something to him. Thats why we're so happy when you call: because we know you cared enough to. But of course its totally fine for girls to go for it. guys if a girl is really going the extra mile for you, at least give her a second look, cuz it takes a lot of guts.  very true. but as michael has said, most cultures as we know of them today have been mainly patriarchial - therefore causing the belief that guys SHOULD ask girls. even through the feminist movements, there has been little change because [as i see it,] girls like it when guys ask them out. Girls do ask guys out, but we're usually too self-conscious to do so. |
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uran Why? Feb 12 2006, 02:55 PM
BitterSweetness well i guess it started a longg, long time ago. yo... Feb 12 2006, 04:54 PM jEllyBeaNs it doesnt really matter who askes who Feb 12 2006, 04:55 PM anubis this goes back to the time of king arthur.
that w... Feb 12 2006, 05:12 PM mipadi It probably runs even deeper than Arthurian times.... Feb 12 2006, 06:08 PM
xblueradiance QUOTE(nightowl89 @ Feb 13 2006, 9:50 PM)Most ... Feb 15 2006, 04:59 PM cvchango it's the MANly thing to do Feb 13 2006, 10:33 PM xnofearx I don't really care. Feb 14 2006, 02:25 PM aznxdreamer its manly!....O_o Feb 14 2006, 05:10 PM AkiraKun It's what society tells us to do. Feb 14 2006, 06:35 PM drilotedahl ^ Yea and girls are more "giggly" in the... Feb 15 2006, 11:13 AM Blow_Don't_SUCK Because it assures a girl she's not going to g... Feb 15 2006, 01:36 PM
xl0stxThoughtx QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 15 2006, 1... Feb 18 2006, 02:31 PM Programmer times are changing girls ask guys out more often t... Feb 16 2006, 07:16 AM Krunk_Muzik ^^^ That's very true. Now it doesn't matte... Feb 16 2006, 10:38 AM xnofearx IT DOESN'T MATTER! iono... Feb 16 2006, 04:01 PM Acid Bath Slayer Dating is alot more laid back today. Go back to th... Feb 16 2006, 05:21 PM zomgznoway QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ Feb 16 2006, 4:21 PM... Feb 16 2006, 07:09 PM add1cted2f1re QUOTE(uran @ Feb 12 2006, 3:55 PM)Okay why do... Feb 16 2006, 11:35 PM swtcherriipie i guess its just.. i really dont know but can some... Feb 18 2006, 01:22 PM |
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