"You're being spoiled... just give him a chance" |
 Feb 15 2006, 11:01 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find.  Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096  |
(read below v) has anyone else felt like this? what do you think the reason was? (for not liking someone so deserving) because 'no connection' seems like a lame excuse...
one of my guy friends likes me. he has for a while now... but it's really awkward because he's like always trying to impress me, and it just comes off as annoying. we aren't close at all. i think the only reason he became my 'friend' was because he liked me. now, everyone knows he likes me, and like my friends are trying to help him out and are sort of pressuring me to 'accept' him. i guess the idea of me finally getting a boyfriend is cute. and yes, i'm supposedly being spoiled and vain. but i'm not. it's not about looks. i've recently liked a guy 'less good looking' then him (everyone else thinks so...  it doesn't matter!). i just don't like him because there's no connection.but he's such a nice guy... and it makes me really sad that i cant like him back. i just get really irritated around him, no matter how hard i try to see the motives behind it. |
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Feb 15 2006, 11:08 PM
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You just find the other more attractive. And the "no connection" isn't a lame excuse. Heck, it's more of a reason than an excuse. If you have no connection with someone then there's no relationship. Don't blame yourself.
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Feb 16 2006, 05:29 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 16 2006, 12:08 PM) You just find the other more attractive. And the "no connection" isn't a lame excuse. Heck, it's more of a reason than an excuse. If you have no connection with someone then there's no relationship. Don't blame yourself.  exactly. you can't force yourself to like a guy, and friends who pressure you to give in like that aren't true friends at all. if they were true friends, they'd understand why you won't go out with him. i say, don't give in, don't go out with him. why? 1) you'll be leading him on, and it's not fair for him or you, and 2) you don't like him, so why bother. |
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angel_revelation "You're being spoiled... just give him a chance" Feb 15 2006, 11:01 PM
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its your friends fault fo... Feb 16 2006, 10:12 PM angel_revelation thanks guys for all the advice i was thinking of... Feb 16 2006, 10:32 PM dreamii i know how that feels, some of my guy friends used... Feb 16 2006, 10:50 PM angel_revelation ^ well i was kind of thinking... a chance as in 1... Feb 16 2006, 11:27 PM
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