"You're being spoiled... just give him a chance" Options

[angelrevelation]

(read below v) has anyone else felt like this? what do you think the reason was? (for not liking someone so deserving) because 'no connection' seems like a lame excuse...

one of my guy friends likes me. he has for a while now... but it's really awkward because he's like always trying to impress me, and it just comes off as annoying. we aren't close at all. i think the only reason he became my 'friend' was because he liked me.

now, everyone knows he likes me, and like my friends are trying to help him out and are sort of pressuring me to 'accept' him. i guess the idea of me finally getting a boyfriend is cute. and yes, i'm supposedly being spoiled and vain. but i'm not. it's not about looks. i've recently liked a guy 'less good looking' then him (everyone else thinks so... it doesn't matter!). i just don't like him because there's no connection.

but he's such a nice guy... and it makes me really sad that i cant like him back. i just get really irritated around him, no matter how hard i try to see the motives behind it.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Dont let your friends pressure you and make you feel bad. Youre not being spoiled or vain any way whatsoever. Your friends need to quit the immature peer pressure bullshit, cos they should understand if you dont like him, then you dont like him. You shouldnt even need to explain yourself. You cant force yourself to like someone that you just, simply dont. Tell your friends to quit being bad friends, and tell that guy youre really flatter but simply do not see him that way because there is not connection.