Does it hurt?, A V-day topic. Options

[Anielka]

Valentine's Day is ridiculous fun, but every year I always have to hold myself back from crying. I also have to look at a valentine I made in 4th grade but never sent. My feelings are written away on it and they haven't changed. The note reads: "I don't think I'm ready to tell you how I feel. Happy Valentines Day." I left a secret identity too, but it was fourth grade, it wasn't cliche then! XD

So tell me, how do you feel on Valentine's Day? And if it hurts, why?
I'm not sure if this has anything to do with relationships. Maybe ya'll should move it. Btw, I searched, and found no other topic like this for this year...maybe I missed it? Let me know if I made a mistake.

[voguelove]

if youre already a couple--"OMGAH! WHERE MY MONEY! I NEED TO GET SOMETHING FOR MY HUNNYYY!!" valentines day may be great for couples. (dating, married, whatever) but im sure there are millions who ponder on what to get their mates for the day of love. some guys think its just a stupid holliday to get their women bra and panty sets from victorias secret (and maybe get some "loving.") or getting them huge heart shaped box chocolates with those yummy caramels inside. or maybe..they go out and search for days just to find the perfect squeezable, hugable, cutuest, biggest, softest teddy. oh, my..did you forget v day again? get ready for a red mark on your cheek. valentines day is probably a girls fav holiday.


if youre not a couple..and youre single--"JUST STFU AND LET ME CRY ALONE!" no, for the people who are lonely and have no one, valentines day is another day where women especially, can go hide in their bath tubs with bubble bath and wine and cry. Some may get home made cards or goodies from friends or others may try to block it out of their minds and pretend valentines day is canceled. its a day to feel sorry about ourselves and ask why cupid was ever invented.



either way..valentines is always bad for everyone. even if youre a couple. theres so much planning if youve already got someone..

[*mipadi*]

if youre already a couple--"OMGAH! WHERE MY MONEY! I NEED TO GET SOMETHING FOR MY HUNNYYY!!" valentines day may be great for couples. (dating, married, whatever) but im sure there are millions who ponder on what to get their mates for the day of love. some guys think its just a stupid holliday to get their women bra and panty sets from victorias secret (and maybe get some "loving.") or getting them huge heart shaped box chocolates with those yummy caramels inside. or maybe..they go out and search for days just to find the perfect squeezable, hugable, cutuest, biggest, softest teddy. oh, my..did you forget v day again? get ready for a red mark on your cheek. valentines day is probably a girls fav holiday.

if youre not a couple..and youre single--"JUST STFU AND LET ME CRY ALONE!" no, for the people who are lonely and have no one, valentines day is another day where women especially, can go hide in their bath tubs with bubble bath and wine and cry. Some may get home made cards or goodies from friends or others may try to block it out of their minds and pretend valentines day is canceled. its a day to feel sorry about ourselves and ask why cupid was ever invented.
either way..valentines is always bad for everyone. even if youre a couple. theres so much planning if youve already got someone..

Haha—that's kind of a cynical way of looking at Valentine's Day, isn't it? I think that there's no need for those in a relationship to stress over Valentine's Day. I think just spending time with a significant other is good enough for most couples. And it doesn't have to be a day to make single people break down and cry. Society (and possibly the media) tries its hardest to make it seem like that's what singles are supposed to do, but I think singles can be quite content on Valentine's Day. Let the couples have their fun, eh?