Please give me some advice!, mom and a new guy |
 Feb 7 2006, 09:16 PM
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 xxtaintedlips  Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998  |
i feell really sad right now. it seems wierd to gush to you guys. ...
anyway my mom and I live on our own. my stepfather left us last year for another woman. Now the people that own out house want to sell it, but we are still tryin to get out of the hole that my step father draged us into. I dont know what to do i love this house! Not only that, but my mom met this man on line, i think it is to early and i dont want her to get hurt for the third time. frankly im just not ready to go on that roller coaster ride again. She said she would wait till i graduated to date again but she is not. the man has kids of his own and im an only child. i dont like little kids and i dont know how i would deal. Am i being selfish? i want my mom to be happy, but it just seems to rip open unhealed scars. Please i dont know what to do. 
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Feb 13 2006, 07:09 PM
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xxtaintedlips Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998 |
well, i talked to my mom and she out right said i was selfish.
she said sometime like life does not last forever and i dont want to be alone. she did not care that i was not ready. I told her how i felt and everything. She said well, you will be moving out soon to college...well thats a while away....2-3 years! I told her that her decisions made huge impacts on my life and she said she wanted to do sometime fun for a change! grrr.... i told her how i felt about having little kids (two boys around) when im 15 and they are 6. Im an only child and i dont think that it is right for my mom to go trough that or make me go through that. not only that, but recently one of the boys was raped at school by another kid...MY AGE! (not my school) I dont know what to do. I guess i just have to let things happen and if things get really bad i can move in with my dad or somthing...i dont know. Please i need all the help i can get! EDIT- i have to have dinner with him tommarow im soo mad! my mom wont let me get out of it. She says i dont have to "marry him" or love him cuz she knows how much i was hurt from her last relationship. 
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xxtaintedlips Please give me some advice! Feb 7 2006, 09:16 PM
BitterSweetness it's okay to feel that way because you've ... Feb 7 2006, 09:27 PM KissMe2408 Wow i'm really sorry :(
Unfortunately i know a... Feb 7 2006, 11:22 PM xxtaintedlips thanks i will take your advice Feb 8 2006, 07:10 AM Programmer --; tell her how you feel. because you know what g... Feb 8 2006, 07:16 AM xxtaintedlips heeheee my cats my only confort lol! Feb 8 2006, 07:18 AM yanners tell her how you feel, but you'll have to cope... Feb 8 2006, 08:06 AM Zatanna I'm a little mixed about this.
I think it... Feb 8 2006, 03:32 PM xxtaintedlips thanks...wow i know that i should support her beca... Feb 8 2006, 05:17 PM FoxBandCutie08 Let your mom know that her choices also affect you... Feb 8 2006, 07:17 PM `Kiwi ♥ ♥ ♥
Aww hun. I know its hard. ... Feb 13 2006, 07:26 PM
xxtaintedlips awww...^^ thanks for the support
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