secret admirer or stalker?, confused. |
secret admirer or stalker?, confused. |
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![]() sandra <3 chris ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 338,520 ![]() |
Theres this guy that i dont know
his friends been telling me that he's a nice guy and he wants the know me. I don't know where he's seen me. but it couldn't possibly love at first sight right? or is he stalking me? Cus he he told me that his mom told him im pretty. that really creeped me out...lol. After a week or so of asking me questions and sending me instant messages, he told me that he was only playing but my friends and his friends say he's lying and he talks about me in front of them a lot. I don't even know who he is but he's so nice to me, talking to me when im sad and cheering me up but i dont like him. I wanna tell him to stop wasting time talking to me but he might just be playing and i dont want to say anything that ruined our "friendship" either. what should i do? |
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![]() dakishimetainoni... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 ![]() |
it doesn't really count as stalking. stalking is unwanted, excessive, obsessive attention from someone. he sounds very sweet.
however if you want to just be friends...you should be upfront about it. tell him that you've heard things about him liking you but you just want to be friends and that it's better to have a long lasting friendship than a complicated relationship. |
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