confused bout my relationship, dunno wat to do. |
confused bout my relationship, dunno wat to do. |
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i been going out with this girl for over a month now...i didnt even like her at all...but she liked me so we started going out. as time went by i liked her cuz i started caring for her alot cuz she was my gf...but i guess when our relationship hit the 3 week point....it seemed like she got bored of me...we use to talk on the phone alot...everyday...and almost everynight before we fall asleep. and couple of nights ago we talked on the phone...she chose to talk to her friends over me.
right now she is partyin it up in another town with her old high school friend....for a couple of days...and i know she is a big flirt and a big party girl. so im kinda worried. but now she doesnt even call me and we barely talk anymore...and when i call her...she tells me she is gonna call me but she never calls me bak...its been 2 days we havent talked. miss her like crazy...kinda hurt. how she chooses her friends over me. cuz im pretty emotional when it comes to relationship. and its kinda messed up how some girls like to play with guys feelings. i wish my feelings werent so soft hearted and more cold hearted like alot of guys...cuz it bugs me alot. (can't sleep, can't stop worrying) wat do u guys think i should do. or wat do u girls think she is thinking or doing? |
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Ok, first off, like it's already been said, you haven't been dating that long, so really it's not a huge loss. Secondly, don't do something immature like go paryting to get back at her. That will just screw you over in the long run. It may just be that she needs some time to just go have fun, and not be anything personal against you. People need a breather every once in awhile. Give her some time and space, and let her call you. Give her a reasonable amount of time, (like give her some time after she gets back) and then, just bring it up. Don't accuse or attack her, just bring it up casually, ask her how it was, if she had a good time, things like that. Communication.
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