my mother.., how do i tell her? Options

[kokonut kookies]

how do i tell my parents i have a boy friend?.... thy kno him and all.. it's just that before me and him were just friends and like i have never told them about my boyfriends in the past.... i hardly speak to them

[Chii]

first, i think you should talk about him to your mom. you know, drop little things like "so and so is great at whatever" or "so and so helped me with whatever" or "so and so said the funniest thing the other day."

don't make it too obvious. but whenever something fits like at dinner, "so and so can make the best whatever food."

when you talk about him, you can see how your mom feels about him then she might either get the hint and ask you about him or you can make her like him and then you can bring him up.

i'm not too good at this, i have never introduced a boyfriend to my parents and my parents had to go to the police precint because of my last boyfriend...