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CALiFORNiAxBEBE
post Feb 8 2006, 07:56 PM
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so im asking this guy to winter ball. but I get really nervous and red and sweaty and hott. and I blush really bad.
so I need help. anyone have any good techniques or tipss?
lol. I sound like sucha silly girl. but I went up to him and I was suppose to ask him but I got too nervous and I ended up asking him if hes GOING to winter ball.

yes i know. loser. cry.gif pinch.gif
 
 
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brakar
post Feb 9 2006, 04:34 AM
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lilxl0ser has a good point. Why shouldn't any guy want to go on a date with you?

But you should also be prepared. Know what to do/say if you start blushing, if he turns you down, if he ignores you or if he says yes.

Blushing is not a problem if you can handle it. I speak from personal experience. Just let it come. Don't make excuses for it or run away. Stay and say what you want to say.

May I suggest a strategy?

Write your name and your phone number on a piece of paper, and add "call me". The next time you see him, walk up to him look him in his eyes and give him the note. Do it slowly, don't say a word and don't worry if you start to blush. When he looks down on your note, turn and walk slowly away.

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CALiFORNiAxBEBE   asking someone to a dance   Feb 8 2006, 07:56 PM
seriouslynikki   Aim? E-mail? Send a note to him? Those work.   Feb 8 2006, 08:12 PM
BitterSweetness   aim is okay but i think the best is in person unle...   Feb 8 2006, 09:19 PM
mzkandi   Moved to Relationships   Feb 8 2006, 09:21 PM
Chii   even though asking him for his screenname then ask...   Feb 8 2006, 09:26 PM
lilxl0ser   ^i agree =] i think you should just relax...just ...   Feb 8 2006, 10:49 PM
Kameko   get to know him, and casually slip it in. or you c...   Feb 9 2006, 01:42 AM
satisfied-tom   just go ask him. guys actually want girls to ask g...   Feb 9 2006, 01:47 AM
liquidize   QUOTE(satisfied-tom @ Feb 8 2006, 10:47 ...   Feb 9 2006, 01:49 AM
brakar   lilxl0ser has a good point. Why shouldn't any ...   Feb 9 2006, 04:34 AM
CALiFORNiAxBEBE   those are great ideas. it turns out that i never ...   Feb 9 2006, 08:09 PM
liquidize   He was lying about how he'd go with you, thats...   Feb 9 2006, 10:27 PM
brakar   No, no, NO! Boys are not your problem. You wo...   Feb 10 2006, 07:48 AM
newyork__lies   Wow, you sound just like how I used to be. I thin...   Feb 10 2006, 12:14 PM
CALiFORNiAxBEBE   yeah true. and what liquidize said is totally not ...   Feb 10 2006, 06:40 PM
Programmer   just do it..and stop procrastinating...your making...   Feb 10 2006, 06:45 PM
|_ittle flying cow   I think you should ask him face to face...just wal...   Feb 10 2006, 08:31 PM
do i know you   come up to him... ask.   Mar 26 2006, 11:37 AM
Syar   You should either wait for HIM to ask you, but you...   Mar 26 2006, 01:40 PM
aicilah999   practice with ur friends if u have to lol... just ...   Mar 26 2006, 07:31 PM
newyork__lies   you're not a silly girl at all. lots of people...   Mar 29 2006, 12:23 PM
priyas   ^agreed.   Mar 31 2006, 02:45 PM


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