Honesty, The Only Medicine Options

[fameONE]

Looking back on all of my previous relationships, and dating experiences, one thing remains the same; you must be honest.

And by honesty, I'm referring to a lot more than just speaking your mind, or saying what's on your heart, but from the getgo, it is important to be straightforward about your intentions.

So you don't want a relationship? Ok, thats fine. Don't front like you do.

If you can honestly tell someone that all you want is to "_____," then be sure that you're clear about it.

Why get involved with someone, tell them you want a relationship or something deeper than simply a friendship, then why mislead them into believing otherwise?

Though being honest with your significant other is important, what's more important is being honest with yourself. If you got used, you probably saw it coming, or the clues were right in front of your face and you ignored them.

If you're feeling remorse for using someone else, and you claim it was unintentional, then more than likely, you're solely responsible for their heartache and emotional anguish.

Be honest.

[FoxBandCutie08]

This is very true. I try my best to be honest but sometimes I honestly don't know what I want out of a relationship as soon as I get in one. I do let them know that, though.

Most of my breakups have been because of lies.