Please give me some advice!, mom and a new guy |
 Feb 7 2006, 09:16 PM
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 xxtaintedlips  Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998  |
i feell really sad right now. it seems wierd to gush to you guys. ...
anyway my mom and I live on our own. my stepfather left us last year for another woman. Now the people that own out house want to sell it, but we are still tryin to get out of the hole that my step father draged us into. I dont know what to do i love this house! Not only that, but my mom met this man on line, i think it is to early and i dont want her to get hurt for the third time. frankly im just not ready to go on that roller coaster ride again. She said she would wait till i graduated to date again but she is not. the man has kids of his own and im an only child. i dont like little kids and i dont know how i would deal. Am i being selfish? i want my mom to be happy, but it just seems to rip open unhealed scars. Please i dont know what to do. 
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Feb 7 2006, 11:22 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Wow i'm really sorry :(
Unfortunately i know a bit about this subject having gone through something similiar. I can understand why you feel like this, and no you aren't being selfish. Please, talk to your mom about this. Tell her you don't feel comfortable with her in another relationship. And you are worried about her getting hurt again, and you getting hurt again, you know? Really talk to her about this. And i'm so sorry about your house :( We had to move as well. But please talk to your mom, and really tell her how you feel. |
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xxtaintedlips Please give me some advice! Feb 7 2006, 09:16 PM
BitterSweetness it's okay to feel that way because you've ... Feb 7 2006, 09:27 PM xxtaintedlips thanks i will take your advice Feb 8 2006, 07:10 AM Programmer --; tell her how you feel. because you know what g... Feb 8 2006, 07:16 AM xxtaintedlips heeheee my cats my only confort lol! Feb 8 2006, 07:18 AM yanners tell her how you feel, but you'll have to cope... Feb 8 2006, 08:06 AM Zatanna I'm a little mixed about this.
I think it... Feb 8 2006, 03:32 PM xxtaintedlips thanks...wow i know that i should support her beca... Feb 8 2006, 05:17 PM FoxBandCutie08 Let your mom know that her choices also affect you... Feb 8 2006, 07:17 PM xxtaintedlips well, i talked to my mom and she out right said i ... Feb 13 2006, 07:09 PM `Kiwi ♥ ♥ ♥
Aww hun. I know its hard. ... Feb 13 2006, 07:26 PM
xxtaintedlips awww...^^ thanks for the support
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